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    Walter North is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Approaches on POF

    I have a profile on POF.com and have approached about 10 women so far. I generally give a short (1-2) line that references her profile, followed with an invitation to look at mine and respond if interested. I have had two responses that led to banter. The first went back and forth over a couple of days, and I invited her to meet at a coffee shop. That was the end of the conversation and it made me skittish until a few days ago.

    The next one I had a nice chat through about 5 rounds at lunch today, which I broke off saying I needed to get back to work. She replied wishing me Merry Christmas. A number of questions:

    Is this a reasonable response rate?

    Should I just drop the last part about checking out my profile etc, which is pretty obvious?

    It's been about 3 weeks since my first conversation ended. Should I try to reinitiate, and how should I go about it? I strongly suspect that apologizing would be counter productive. Maybe something like - we had a nice discussion a couple of weeks ago but I think I came on a little strong, let's start again?

    Thanks for any advice,
    Walt

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    Default Re: Approaches on POF

    Don't apologize for coming of to strong, especially if you werent actually being too strong ya know? My advice for POF, approach more. It's a numbers game man and you have nothing to lose. That being said, the higher quality women are the ones you will meet in person honestly. You have a much better chance, because women know men are able to hide behind a computer screen, only real men know how to go up and say hi bro!
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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    Walter North is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Approaches on POF

    My target has been to message three per day. I like the analogy to planting, and reviewing my approaches even after a week or so shows some real improvement (IMO). I've also revised/refined my profile which I think will help.

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    Default Re: Approaches on POF

    Yes, even girls know that POF is "bottom feeders," as I've heard it described. In fact, some of them use it as a way to find sugar daddies and nothing more....

    No one with any healthy level of self-respect for themselves or others would use it as their primary way of meeting people...

    But, as a PUA... it doesn't hurt to cover all bases....

    I suggest trying out fling.com as well... I've met quite a few off there....

    Last conversation I had from POF was a girl that was currently being beaten by her boyfriend and if she got caught on POF... she would be beaten even more.... no joke....

    My suggestion.... if you get someone talking to you on there... meet in person right away and make it REAL LIFE......


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