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    Von
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    Default POF - When do you ask her out for real

    So I have pick up POF again after not really getting in it.

    Got 3 replies today, so far around 10 messages back and forth with each girl. In the same day.

    Some went out asking me stuff and reading my profile. I don't want to be a ''text-online'' buddy... I want to meet them and see where it goes

    - How to you proceed to the real life meeting ?
    - What do you write ?
    - Which approach you feel works better ?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    Quote Originally Posted by Von View Post
    So I have pick up POF again after not really getting in it.

    Got 3 replies today, so far around 10 messages back and forth with each girl. In the same day.

    Some went out asking me stuff and reading my profile. I don't want to be a ''text-online'' buddy... I want to meet them and see where it goes

    - How to you proceed to the real life meeting ?
    - What do you write ?
    - Which approach you feel works better ?

    Thanks

    You ask them to meet somewhere and set a date. Simple as that.

    Just curious, how many messages did you have to send to get those 3 replies?

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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    You ask them to meet somewhere and set a date. Simple as that.

    Just curious, how many messages did you have to send to get those 3 replies?
    It's a numbers game, just keep trying while keeping an Alpha frame

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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    I understand, but I was wondering what his numbers were...

    And I know it's mostly about the pictures...

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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    You ask them to meet somewhere and set a date. Simple as that.
    This is all good and well, except you're going to have zero success if that's your whole approach.

    Check out Discussion: Go for the date quickly or play it out online?. There are some good responses to a similar question.

    The thing to remember with online is that it's not easy for girls to just go and meet some strange guy from the internet. Relax, take your time, and let it happen naturally.

    I'd be happy to take a look at your conversations for you.

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    Von
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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    Thanks for the answer.

    I did use a line ''let meet for 20mins coffee, if we like each other or not'' are you free on friday or saturday.... January 8, i'll be there join me, I look like this.... sounds good (probably it was too much.... into it).... she never replied, so I never showed up

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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    I would have to see the surrounding conversation first, but that's not a strong way to ask her out!

    What sort of attraction, intrigue, comfort, etc. are you building before you go for the Number Close? Or are you going straight for the date without number closing first?

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    Von
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    Default Re: POF - When do you ask her out for real

    It's all in French but basically I send 3 emails she send me 13 (for each points on my profile).... she told me she was free X date....

    I used:

    1) I saw your profile and you seems a lot of fun, as an individual person I can't say much about you under than clear goals about school but you can shed some light on me about that. You seem attractive but beauty is common, I wonder what makes you unique, what makes you..YOU? Here's a question. If we were kids again what Disney movie would you pick for us to watch?

    Her: Answers Aladin

    Me: Because of the XXXX XXXX

    2) Tell me, if you learned that in 24h you would lose your memories and that in front of you there's a paper and a pen. What would you write ? (i got it from a friend who gets date online all the time.... while i get shit zero lol but i am doing alright in person)

    Her: Omg its like a psychological test or interview.... goes on to answer without me having any input and than send me like 10-12 points about her passion etc.. (she answered my POF profile, which is basically 13 points about me)

    3) "You seem like a person who I might like. I am kinda busy and cannot chat a lot, but lets have a coffee next week. ITs only 20 mins, if we like each other we will do something else, if not 20 mins is enough to understand that and we dont need to waste our time chatting. What day is good for you, Tuesday or Thursday?"

    Her: Friday

    4) I tell her where i'll be and she should join me

    I personally don't get online dating but some stuff you learn are well applicable in real life situation. Thats out it went. I send her the adress later and never showed up cause I didnt expect her too.


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