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Thread: Try again or move on? Texting help

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    Default Try again or move on? Texting help

    So I number closed on this girl and started texting her. Things went ok but I think I asked for a date too suddenly even though the conversation was fun and light.
    Me: Hey totally random but I'm planning on going to Starbucks later this evening. Care to join me?
    Her: I am at school and Office hour is mine , I can't go anywhere. Have a good time !

    Waited an hour and asked what her schedule looked like next week and replied "school everyday" and change the whole subject - talking about her family. Should I chase or move on? How can I bounce back or is it a done deal? Any advice would be great.

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    Default Re: Try again or move on? Texting help

    Hey brother,

    I know we've never met, but I need you to make me a promise right now.

    Promise me you'll never text a girl asking her about her schedule ever again.

    ESPECIALLY right after she turned you down for a date.

    You've got neediness shining through like a spotlight, young pimp. And you don't want that. Women HATE neediness.

    Your ideal response after she said "Can't hang out, but have a good time!" should have been "Thanks, I will!" and then go to Starbucks, have a kickass time, hit on the barrista, and sit at the table with the girl who's mindlessly scrolling through facebook. Because she obviously needs a champ like yourself to add some color to her life.

    Don't chase her. Don't chase any woman. You want her to chase you.

    Here's how:
    Don't text her for awhile. Then when you're out having fun with your friends, text her something like "Hey, I'm out having a kickass time doing "X" here's a little detail about why it's so cool, hope you're well!" Don't invite her.
    This shows her that you have fun without her and it's going to make her want to hang around you more.

    And if you do actually invite her out, do it like this. "Hey, me and my friends are going to do "X" (something really fun) you should come, bring some friends."

    Asking her to hang out with a group and telling her to bring her friends doesn't put as much pressure on her as a 1 on 1 "date."

    And when you do get her (or any girl) to hang out with you. And you want to take the conversation from boring "friendzone" material to her begging to rip your clothes off, use some of these tips.

    Creating Sexual Tension | Jake Berreth Dating

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    Default Re: Try again or move on? Texting help

    Hey JayBee,

    Really appreciate the advice you gave me. You're right, I'm the prize and women should be chasing me!

    Thanks again!

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    Default Re: Try again or move on? Texting help

    Quote Originally Posted by HLCMSD View Post
    So I number closed on this girl and started texting her. Things went ok but I think I asked for a date too suddenly even though the conversation was fun and light.
    Me: Hey totally random but I'm planning on going to Starbucks later this evening. Care to join me?
    Her: I am at school and Office hour is mine , I can't go anywhere. Have a good time !

    Waited an hour and asked what her schedule looked like next week and replied "school everyday" and change the whole subject - talking about her family. Should I chase or move on? How can I bounce back or is it a done deal? Any advice would be great.
    Bro you are not following the rules of being a Pick Up Artist. I have a few simple rules when it comes to texting. Maybe one day I'll write a Bro Bible. But for now...

    One of the cardinal rules to "Game"
    Is to qoute "Invite the chick to things you are already doing."

    Is this something qoute "you were already doing" going to a qoute unqoute "coffee shop" hence why you were a bit sunk when she lost interest mad quick.

    Asking chicks to coffee has to be the cheapest and lamest attempt to get a chick.

    I invite a chick to all kinds of places but the thing that proves constant is inviting them to the bar, club, wherever I am going. This is how a relationship is thus formed so stop thinking like a dude with a One-Date Agenda. What would be your 2nd Date or 3rd? Are you planning to take this chick to Coffee the rest of her life??

    Come on man get real. Girls don't want to go to coffee, lunch or dinner. They want to hang, they want to chill like real people. The best date of my life was a Strip Club which was her idea outside of my comfort zone but it was a million times better than dinner or coffee. Not saying you should try the Strip Club but stuff surrounded by alcohol is generally what I gravitate towards since people are very social in theses settings making for a great date.

    Think alcohol and maybe invite chicks to that. Stop with the outdated cliches. For the record I had a Coffee date a decade ago and it was the worst thing ever. Never called her after that.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack


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