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    Liook is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question A little help here

    Hello,

    I just met this girl today at school and I got her number, since she took a image for our project and I needed it.

    When I ain't feeling anything for the girl, I usually just speak whatever comes to mind. Works most of the time. But when I like the girl, I drop spaghetti everywhere. Sad part is, I like this girl.

    We only have one class together, so I don't really see eachother much. So texting is the only thing, but I fucking suck at it.

    I want to know if anybody can read anything from these messages. Or if I should tone down or up, or what? I didn't answer her after the "thanks" and its been around 2 hours since. I don't know if I should write to her again or wait...

    (Before we just spoke casually)
    Her: Perfect. You finished it? :-)
    Me: Yes. It is perfect. :-D
    Her: I've no doubt about that, I just think it was really sweet of you :-)
    Me: You seem sweet too, so it is only fair ;-)
    Her: Thanks :-)

    Thanks in advance. Ive never read anything PUA related, but Ill begin now.

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    Default Re: A little help here

    I'm by no means an expert, but it's an awful little amount of information to go on.

    Why don't you make some plans with her, outside of school? Be authoritative and just make sure you guys have fun, you'll know better then where to take things.

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    Liook is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: A little help here

    Hey, Thanks for the reply

    Yes, I just met her. I'm trying to take it slow, but aggressive. Going to class again tomorrow, I will just go and sit besides her and try to take it from there. I'm usually doing it fast and aggressive, and it only works, if the girl likes drinking and partying. So I aint taking any chances with this girl. This girl doesn't like drinking, so I'm pretty much lost for activites.

    I'm sure she is up for the cube, but it needs to be somewhere where I am comfortable too. No coffee-drinking date.

    I train and do kickboxing. Training sounds too boring and the kickboxing isn't on her level. I know she was surprised of my knowledge in molecular biology, because she thought I was just some kind of stupid/lazy douche. (I look like one lol)

    I think of waiting a bit. I'm going on vacation next week and Ill chat her up again after I'm back. After I know we're both comfortable, Ill go to a poolbar with some friends and invite her. Make my alcohol intake minimum and focus on her, and hope that no one wants to fight.

    A lot of people wants to fight/challenge me. Their usully doing it with being stupid, pushing and taking up space and so on. I always get angry and fix them up, but I can't do that with her near. What should I do if someone is doing that? Just let it happen like some beta shit?

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    Default Re: A little help here

    Usually just call them out on it.. My favorite line I use when people get on my nerves is "wow, if you want my attention all you have to do is ask." That usually stumps them and leaves them looking stupid. For the girl part just go for it. I've come to learn that texting is all about trial and error!!! Sometimes you're high and sometimes no one texts you back and you feel very low. Don't depend on it but if that's the only way you have of talking to her just try new things bro. The worst that could happen is her not talking to you. That's when you learn from your mistake and get better. Also go get other girls numbers!! More experience with girls will give you better odds

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    Default Re: A little help here

    Read the stickey's at the top of the online and text game section. That will help give you some insight into how to be fun, interesting and different.

    And second, pretend you don't like her and just be yourself. She's human and not perfect, no one is, stop putting her on a pedestal


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