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    Default Get emotional connection through text

    Hi!

    I'm stuck a little, I try to reconnect with my ex, but the texting communication is little bit one-sided. Do you have any samples, what kind of question, technique can open the girl, and get closer on emotional level? Mostly I write about myself, whats happening with me and ask back to her the same, but I don't know how to ask about her, to get emotional responses (I usually get few sentences answears, nothing emotional.)
    For examples the questions what I asked:
    How did you feel today at your work?
    What are you waiting in summer?
    How did you like XY film?
    What is your opinion about what happened with XY common friend?


    So I thought this kind of open question would help to reconnect with her, but it's not really working. Do you have any advices?

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    Default Re: Get emotional connection through text

    1. Forget about your ex and move on
    2. Read! Specifically all the posts in this section. Your answer is out there but you need to find it.

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    Default Re: Get emotional connection through text

    Exes... Bad News. That kinda drama will mess w. ur mind

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    Default Re: Get emotional connection through text

    It's not working because those questions are BORING ........ she probably fell asleep reading them
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Get emotional connection through text

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    It's not working because those questions are BORING ........ she probably fell asleep reading them
    HAHAHAH that's mean...but it's true !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Get emotional connection through text

    Ex - Is short For Extinct - therefore doesn't exist.

    With the texting, first mistake is telling her about you - its counterproductive, why would a girl be interested in a guy she already has figured out (by you telling her everything).

    See your mind state: this is the Major problem, You have valued her like she is the only girl on the planet, hense why your still chasing.

    Facts: There is a ridiculous ammount of women in the world then men, So...
    1. she aint the only girl.
    2. that makes Men the limited addition.
    3. Probably why we have more Īndependent and Feminist"women, Becuase If man is provider not every women will survive so they have live like the man (abit of old school thinking but in some girls with that mentality it could exist)
    4. All you have to do is Go through the process of devaluing her to a state that actually matches reality/ or fuck a few more people becuase the first one you fuck you will probably feel guilty because of this Over rated value you have put on her, but every time you have sex it will become easier, its called tolerance.
    5. Upgrade/ Phones old or you ëx"phone/ you get an upgrade. learn what you need to, become a better version of your self, and raise your value and get a women you deserve.


    Here is the Hard part, This will be painfull, but you need to read this. A girl who is interested in you will make an effort, if you are struggling to think of things to say, or something to reply, or she forgets to ask a question back and realise you havent responded in while so she susses out her messages analyzing it like a forensic scene until she realise she didnt write it back and sends a text back, saying"how about you?" to keep it going because for a second there in her own mind she thought she blew, because your some kind of god that if you didnt get asked back it was over forever.

    Your ex is NOT acting like that. She IS over you, She is NOT interested in you, you are too familiar (knows you too well to be exciting), you are not exciting to her, she wants something new and thats not you. If you asked write now if she still Loves/like/Cares about you, she would feel sorry for you and probably say yes just becuase she understands this is harder on you then her hense she is over you and your still chasing and she wouldnt want to hurt you, but then you would take it as a sign of hope that you can win her back, take it way to far and she will hate you for ever. You need to except that, respect that, and get over her. you broke for a reason. If you were meant to be together, you would be together, and since your not, Forcing it or trying to hard is only going to destroy the rest of her perception with you, walk away with self respect, go through your pro's all the good qualities you have, raise your value just by recognising who you, the got through your cons, 1 by 1 and elimanate them until your the best man a women could ever want, and go out and have the confidence through self worth that you deserve any woman you want, and these women will sense it through natural pheramone production and natural body language and just a pressence and you will have ioi's everywhere, girls sending signal, and that will give you more confidence and you amplify more and then women pick you up. you dont have to do shit but exist.

    sup Xavier
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Get emotional connection through text

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Ex - Is short For Extinct - therefore doesn't exist.

    With the texting, first mistake is telling her about you - its counterproductive, why would a girl be interested in a guy she already has figured out (by you telling her everything).

    See your mind state: this is the Major problem, You have valued her like she is the only girl on the planet, hense why your still chasing.

    Facts: There is a ridiculous ammount of women in the world then men, So...
    1. she aint the only girl.
    2. that makes Men the limited addition.
    3. Probably why we have more Īndependent and Feminist"women, Becuase If man is provider not every women will survive so they have live like the man (abit of old school thinking but in some girls with that mentality it could exist)
    4. All you have to do is Go through the process of devaluing her to a state that actually matches reality/ or fuck a few more people becuase the first one you fuck you will probably feel guilty because of this Over rated value you have put on her, but every time you have sex it will become easier, its called tolerance.
    5. Upgrade/ Phones old or you ëx"phone/ you get an upgrade. learn what you need to, become a better version of your self, and raise your value and get a women you deserve.


    Here is the Hard part, This will be painfull, but you need to read this. A girl who is interested in you will make an effort, if you are struggling to think of things to say, or something to reply, or she forgets to ask a question back and realise you havent responded in while so she susses out her messages analyzing it like a forensic scene until she realise she didnt write it back and sends a text back, saying"how about you?" to keep it going because for a second there in her own mind she thought she blew, because your some kind of god that if you didnt get asked back it was over forever.

    Your ex is NOT acting like that. She IS over you, She is NOT interested in you, you are too familiar (knows you too well to be exciting), you are not exciting to her, she wants something new and thats not you. If you asked write now if she still Loves/like/Cares about you, she would feel sorry for you and probably say yes just becuase she understands this is harder on you then her hense she is over you and your still chasing and she wouldnt want to hurt you, but then you would take it as a sign of hope that you can win her back, take it way to far and she will hate you for ever. You need to except that, respect that, and get over her. you broke for a reason. If you were meant to be together, you would be together, and since your not, Forcing it or trying to hard is only going to destroy the rest of her perception with you, walk away with self respect, go through your pro's all the good qualities you have, raise your value just by recognising who you, the got through your cons, 1 by 1 and elimanate them until your the best man a women could ever want, and go out and have the confidence through self worth that you deserve any woman you want, and these women will sense it through natural pheramone production and natural body language and just a pressence and you will have ioi's everywhere, girls sending signal, and that will give you more confidence and you amplify more and then women pick you up. you dont have to do shit but exist.

    sup Xavier
    Yo ! I plan on fucking a girl with a BF that leaves the city forever in a week, I met her a week ago ! Challenge accepted ! Well actually comfort and mad Kino is there so I just need to tease her a bit and it's all good ! Not much of a challenge, but she is hot though !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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