Ok So I've read 2 books on texting and it helped me land this date, neither really address the step right after the in detail of what to say after the first date just briefly. Everything is about leading up to the first date and continuing onto the dates after but they kinda skip over what to say between date one and 2. My dilemma is that I had a great first date at starbucks (I could tell she was mutually interested bc she kept qualifying her self) had a good report for an hour so it wasn't to long it was brief I feel like. Set up the 2nd date like so. I wave her down quick hug completely casual. We enter starbucks
Me "You got this right?"
Her "I got this? You got this!"
Me pause for about a minute
Me "Tell you what I'll get it this time you can get it the next time." Smiling
Her " I can get mine if you want me to."
Me no response
Get to the register she orders and the lady ask anything else I proceed to add mine and then pay for it reminding her shes's got me next time. Smiling
All fun and games she was biting and laughing she actually kept bringing it up saying now you better hold it to me! Dont forget! Remind me! I got you next time! All on her own.
So the date went on we talked about a few things for a solid hour, then she mentioned she would need to leave soon bc the roads were gonna Ice over and It's an except able excuse. So Ik that was my cue. I gave the convo about five more minutes before saying
Me "I need to go to walmart to grab a couple things for my place wanna ride?"
Her "Its getting late." not so blunt but kinda like that.
Me "Ok cool."
Get up walk out were she then reminds me to hold it against her to pay the next time so the second date is setup unofficially.
We talk as we walk to the cars I walk to hers she gives me a story why her car had a huge dent in it. Qualifying herself so to speak.
Things Ik I could have done better on the date.
Made her laugh a little more.
Been a little more flirtatious/sexually aggressive.
I head to walmart send a quick snapchat of the huge ass valentines bears
Me "These things are as big as me"
Her "Ik they're like 40 to 50 bucks right?
Me" Idk anyone worth that lol"
Her "Me either haha"
Me 10 mins later snapchat "Had a great time btw lets shoot for soon"
Her " Me too very soon!"
Me" 5 minutes later. Drive safe dont wanna scrape you off the road."
Her "Ik I need to be looking at the road" again these are snapchat pictures
Me "Ik I'm not that sexy you can look at the road now lol"
Me An hour or so later snapchat picture "Driving the race car prob wasnt good idea (crazy face)"
No response so I leave it at that then say about 2 in the a.m before going to sleep I sent a text
Me "Fwehh just getting in... Hope you made it home safe! Night punk. :P"
About 18 hours later still no response still trying to calculate the next move! Any advice?