Hey guys I need some advice asap. Long story short, I met this beautiful Brazilian girl while hanging-out with my friend and his brother. Just to add: I fell heads over heels for her. For the purpose of clarity, I'm gonna called this girl Anna. Anyway, I was able to talk to her for a while and even dance with her for 5 minutes. I ended up getting her number that night and we then said our goodbyes. Btw, this was a Saturday night.
So, playing it cool I called her that following Monday. She and her friend were on her way to a restaurant near my house. She invited me to come, so naturally I told I would be there. I showed like a hour later. At the restaurant I talked to both Anna and her friend and everything was going smoothly. Throughout our conversation, Anna was touching my arms. And just like any other guy, I took this as ioi. In end we said our goodbyes and I went home.
Two days later (Wednesday), I called Anna again, but she didn't pick up. She texted me half-an-hour later saying that she couldn't talk, because she just had her wisdom tooth taken out. So since then, I continued to text her and also because her spoken English wasn't all that good.
To skip a lot of detail, in the following weeks I kept on asking her to hang-out with me (my messages didn't include any sense of desperation or anything like that) but she would never give me a definite answer or sometimes she insisted on bringing her friends. Keep in mind that it was always me initialing the conversation (ie. the texting) and not vice versa. And sometimes, she would only agree to hang-out with me if I was hanging out with friends of my own. Altough, there were a couple occasions where she invited me to hang-out with her friends so, naturally I would go and join them. At these occasions she would literally speak like two sentences to me the whole time and not say anything else. Btw, this had nothing to do with her bad English, I'm guessing that was her way of ignoring me.
So pretty much I got the impression that she wasn't interested. What solidified this point was: my own friend (who speaks Portuguese) asking her [Anna] if she was looking for some to date. Anna's response was: that because she was an au pair and only staying temporary she didn't want to get into any relationships. This I think was total bullSh1t though.
In the end, I haven't talked to or texted her in over a week. And supposedly 2 days ago (Friday) Anna and her friend had another get together in some restaurant and I wasn't invited, by Anna. So pretty much my questions are: should I forget her (even though I think she the coolest down-earth chick I met) or come up with a new tactic to get her to go out with me?
Please help me and if you guys need more information or clarification let me know !