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    Default Who knows what to do with this??

    Met a die hard TEN at this show i was djing last weekend. I mean, fing ten all the way. She is young 19, im 23. I saw her posted up beside the dance floor looking bored, i had met her once before at a house party but didnt talk too much. I kinda swepped her off her feet with a big pick up hug and led her to the dancefloor. We danced for about 20 minutes, made out on the dance floor a few times (she was kind of holding back but was super into it). We chat for a bit outside and she disappears somehow. I text her the next day, we text back and forth about four times, and i think i came off too strong by saying "its was cool dancin whichu" because she didnt reply;/ I want to text her again but not sure what to say and i dont want to lower value by double texting. Advice? Keep in mind this girl is a freaking ten and probably has an army of dudes who want in her pants. Should i text her again or wait another day? (three days)

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    Default Re: Who knows what to do with this??

    I forgot the term for it, but there's like two different types of attraction. There's solid attraction and then there's state based attraction. When she gets home, sobers up, and goes to work or school she will likely not feel the same way about a random guy she made out with and had small talk.

    Honestly I think your only option here is to invite her out the next time you DJ at a place and next time build some more comfort and qualify her so when she goes home that attraction stays with her. Not sure how much comfort you built with her, but you may need to improve on it. However, I highly highly highly recommend qualification. It's the best way to solidify her attraction to you.

    Of course she could always get back to you if you did make that good of an impression, but I would not double text. If you don't hear from her take that as a sign you need more comfort, qualification, rapport building, all that good stuff and just invite her out to your next gig. No more than 2 days in advance.
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