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Thread: New to all this!

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    Default New to all this!

    I used this opener all night last night on POF

    "After a rigorously brief overview of your profile, I wanted to let you know I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

    Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

    your ex-hubby,

    Keith

    P.S. You can keep the house in Hawaii but, I am going to need half our money according to our prenup."



    one reply I got was a simple "?"

    My response was: They say pretty girls have no sense of humor....I hope that's not true about you...


    Was that the best move?

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    Default Re: New to all this!

    No offense, but many guys have copied and pasted that opener.

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    Default Re: New to all this!

    Best move would be to stop using copy and pasted material, a common mistake with new guys, and that line I would only use with girls I'm friends with or in a relationship with ...... it's sort of creepy coming from a stranger
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: New to all this!

    Although the opener has a sense of humor, it has a lot of failure in it. One you are talking about divorce, women have a need for security, divorce does not support that sense of security so you are loosing attraction there. Prenup, is another one.

    You are basically setting yourself up to fail, while sending the wrong message across all in your first impression. I know its a joke to you but women have a checklist, Security is a major one and you have stripped yourself of that instantly. You make jokes like that after you have made some kind of connection, Not straight away.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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