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    Hello guys,

    I'm new here, this is my first post, and I hope I will learn a lot from you experienced guys out there. I have some questions in my mind which didn't manage to answer through reading the books and I will start today asking about social media and how often we should post stuff, and what stuff to post.

    I'm 29 years old and I read in many books that "Guys are more attractive if they are in control of their life, and have their own life".

    In my age, the only way to show that you have a life (so the girls spot it) is to post into instagram and facebook. For example, a selfie when you go at a road-trip. Or, a selfie in the gym, or a selfie here and a selfie there. I see many guys doing this.

    The thing is that I was always having that feeling for those guys who put selfies on social medias, that this is not correct and that actually this shows that you DON'T have a life and you post all those selfies just to pretend that you have a life and to get noticed.

    On the other hand, if you don't post on social medias, how can the girls notice that you actually have a life, or notice your new fit body that you have accomplished by going to the gym?

    I would like to hear your opinions regarding this subject.

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    Photos are definitely very important.

    Unfortunately, most people don't make full use of it properly.

    A lot of guys take all these selfies to showcase their lifestyle, which is great... don't get me wrong, but why have a selfie for everything? It's all about being really selective here.

    Instead of going with a selfie at the gym, or a selfie when you are dressed up and getting ready to go to some fancy event... the much better option would be to...

    1) Have someone take your photos for you.
    2) Be with your friends when you are taking that photo.
    3) Be doing something fun or really cool. Gym selfies are just vanity shots. Those are best left to the women.
    4) Have a candid shot. It works really well because no one's paying attention to the camera, but to living that moment instead.

    To add on to the last point, photos are extremely useful for showcasing your lifestyle. Regardless of whether you are doing online game or not, your social media is a very good way for people to see who you are as a person, and whether you are the type that they would want to hang out with.

    But in order to take full advantage of social media's influence, you need to know what makes a good social update (in this case, photos).

    And to finally answer your question about how you can let women notice your new fit body... that's simple. Just bulk up to the point where there's a noticeable difference, and then take a good shot that includes your upper body.

    People can see when your chest is buffed up, or whether your arms took on more bulk or not. But if you only just worked out in the gym for a week, don't be so impatient to want to show off. This is a long term game, not some short term quick fix.

    Imagine you put up a shot of you at the gym a few times. Months later down the road, none of that appears on your Instagram or Facebook any more. Do you think women wouldn't start wondering? They are not stupid either. If you are not consistent, you will be found out eventually.

    Hope that gives you a better perspective.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jironasaurus View Post
    Instead of going with a selfie at the gym, or a selfie when you are dressed up and getting ready to go to some fancy event... the much better option would be to...

    1) Have someone take your photos for you.
    Thank you Jironasaurus,

    I believe that if others post photos and tag you is the best thing to do. But as I don't like to ask others to do it in purpose, do you believe it's ok to have them take a photo of me but I post them myself?

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    Oh yes. That is so much better any day than taking a selfie.

    BUT you don't want to get someone to take a photo of only you. Your friends have to be in the shot as well. That's what makes the photo so effective.

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    My social proof game went to crap as soon as every experience I had was great, When you are truly enjoying yourself, you do not think to take photo's, you are too consumed by the situation to think about showing the world what you are doing and pretending its important and will benefit you.

    So the only thing you can do, is approach, which makes sense. if you have no online game/Social proof then you have to use the situation you are in. This is good because it makes you very efficient at escalating very quickly.

    I've become pretty private, I do benefit from the mystery a lot more then I did off Social proof because its best to let the individual form an opinion of you there and then, with what you say, then them looking over information and seeing patterns that they may not like.

    But social proof has advantages. I, like you, Don't like this addiction to Validation. There is no high value in it. Probably why Snap chat is good, nobody likes, etc and everything is deleted so they cant really form patterns or stalk.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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