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    Question Any tips on how I should go about this?

    Alright gents,

    Got a Text message from a friend of mine today whom I recently started talking to about a month ago in class.

    We had coffee today in between classes and I asked her if she was seeing anyone towards the end of our break.

    Fast forward a few hours later, she texts me with:
    "Okay I have to know because it's still bothering me. What was the point you were trying to make when you asked if I was seeing anyone?"

    How should I respond? I'm letting the question linger in her head for a little bit longer.

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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    "I want to stalk you 24/7."
    "Oh you're one of those girls who has to know everything, aren't you? "

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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    "The question is... why does it bother you so much?"

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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    The key is to never try to ask a girl out BEFORE you build attraction.
    Otherwise you run a higher risk of getting a "no" &/or you give the impression that you're just going out as friends.

    So then when you try to make a move later on the girl gets confused, just as your situation turned out.

    Your best bet is to use a little humor like lenric mentioned above.


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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    Hey, Tmal

    If you have a female friend;that you have been platonic with for a while, what's the best way to ask them out?

    Do you flirt first then ask them out? It would be kinda akward to all of a sudden be, "your beautiful, wanna go out?"

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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    Wiki ~ unless you are in a relationship with them , NEVER tell a girl she is beautiful, that's what lame guys do ...... If they ask me if I think they are pretty, I always tell them "You're not missing any of your front teeth and that's a big plus in my book "
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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    thanks drgnsfire, so what would you do then?

    What do I do about pretty girls in my social circle, that are my friends?

    should I just move on?

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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    https://www.quora.com/How-does-someo...-a-good-friend

    I found a great link with the answer from a girl! Good read!

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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    NO .... don't move on .... Let me tell you a little story .... SO I meet a girl at work who is in the US for three years, I help her with her luggage, we talk, we hit off, we go to coffee. We spend four hours at coffee and she tells me she has a boyfriend back home in Slovenia. I was like OK, Cool, we can still be friends and hang out and she is cool with that so we start to hang out, and I am totally playing the whole lets be buddies thing like I'll say " Have a good night buddy" or "take care pal, I'll talk to you tomorrow" but at the same time I am building attraction and throwing in sexual stuff because she is texting me "had so much fun tonight" , " I love hanging out with you" , "you're an awesome guy" .... so one night we go out for drinks, and we are leaving the bar and she says to me " I think we have a problem" and I'm like "what's wrong" and she says " I'm falling for you " and very calmly I'm like "well I wont let you ruin the great relationship you have with your boyfriend for a lot of fun and fooling around with me" and then she says" but I can't stop thinking about you" .... and yeah we made out and started dating ...... My point is the friends thing is not the death sentence that a lot of guys make it out to be, it's a way to get in there so you can work hard to build attraction and if you build enough attraction she isn't going to care about the friends thing because she will look at you in a whole different light ..... and yes it took my about three months from our first coffee to making out but who cares ..... at my age I'm in no hurry
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    Default Re: Any tips on how I should go about this?

    Lol, I like your style, Let it linger. Thats the cruel suffering I do.

    Firstly, Does she have a boyfriend? You never established this and some people are assuming this to be the case.

    Secondly, Did you guys have a conversation between you asking her if she is seeing some one & she asking you why your asking? If so what was Said in that (Fast Forwarding a few hours).

    So i'm going to assume nothing was said. Judging by the way you typed this. The Fast forward was just skipping useless time.

    I'm going to assume she said "No" because of your statement "How should I respond? I'm letting the question linger in her head for a little bit longer." which it is pretty safe to say you still want to seduce her.

    So....... Now that all of the above has been established.

    Direct/Indirect/Flirty/
    Direct/Indirect/Flirty/Direct/Indirect/Flirty/Direct/Indirect/Flirty/Direct/Indirect/Flirty/Direct/Indirect/Flirty.............. . DIRECT!!!

    Direct Response: I don't share lips with other guys. You can buy me a drink on Tuesday. See yah!
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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