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Thread: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

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    Default Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    Hey guys,

    Would love to get some outside perspective on my text convo over the last ~month with an HB7/8. I've been out of the text game for a few months now, and quite frankly haven't been pushing myself too much to find some new HB's out there. Working on that now and getting back into posting and interacting with the community more.

    For any newbies out there reading this, here's proof that even more experienced PUA's (I'm no where close to an expert, but have been in the game for 5ish years) have things to work on...would love your outlook on this too, guys!

    Quick Background: I've known this HB for a few years now. Always had a fun / flirty connection with her but never had the desire to make a move, I enjoyed where we were and the girls I had on the side. I want to escalate things now, though. I think a big thing I need to realize here is that saying, "you need to risk losing her as a friend if you want to have her". That said, I'd love for you guys to go through my text convo over the last month or so and critique where I could have done better, how I can improve, future plans I can make, etc. etc....giving myself the benefit of the doubt, the few time's I've seen her in person, we've had a good time and I initiated some Kino but not to the extent I do with HB's I'm set on f-closing.

    Text Convo:

    NEW DAY
    Me: Hey! I'm at [bar] under my apt grabbing a few drinks. You should have already been here...
    HB: Wasn't invited 😒
    Me: Dammmmmmnnnnn!
    Me: True
    Me: For real, come by...[my address]
    Me: See you soon
    HB: Come to [bar]
    HB: U need to
    HB: No exceptions
    Me: Hah! Thank you for the invite but I cannot right now xD
    Me: We'll hang soon
    HB: Tonight
    HB: Why can't u
    Me: I would love to see you! Might be free later tonight, what sort of trouble you getting into...
    HB: Getting into trouble w u
    HB: Lmk when u come meet us downtown

    NEW DAY
    HB: HOW ARE YOU
    HB: TELL ME EVERYTHING
    Me: Still tall, 24 and thriving, living, laughing, loving, and flirting <3
    Me: #StayFlirty
    Me: Your turn
    HB: 😊 love all those things - still single, lonely and on lots of dating apps looking for #theone
    Me: Don't be lonely I'm here for you ...let's grab a drink or two this week and you can tell me all about the terrible dates you've had 😘
    HB: 🤗🤗🤗
    HB: Let's

    NEW DAY
    Me: [Funny GIF image]
    Me: HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!! Turn that frown up side down! 2 days until Friday!!! 🎉😵👍🏼🙌🏼😘😎🌹👑
    HB: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAA
    Me: Hoi! I ve got this going away party thing tomoz for a friend at Tuttles...come with me? Or drinkt after..
    Me: Effff dutch keyboard by accident lol ignore the misspellings...
    HB: Hahha what
    HB: My bro is in town so i dont know if I can go out tomororw
    Me: 1) You have a brother!?! 2) DAMMMMMN! 3) You now officially owe me...big time!
    HB: You never invite me it's not like I ditch you often 🙄
    HB: 🙈🙊🙊🙊
    Me: LOL fair, I'll invite you to wayyy more fun things, but you'll just have to clear your schedule for me xD
    Me: FYI, I really do miss goofing around with you...it's just too much fun
    HB: I realllllyyy miss you you're always invited w me you know that what ru doing Friday???
    Me: I have an after hours party...but maybe we get together before for drinks and fun
    HB: Okay I missss u we can talk closer to it

    NEW DAY
    Me: I want to do happy hour / evening drinks...so I think we should 👍🏼😵😘🍺🍩
    Me: [Funny party GIF image]
    Me: Oh....HAPPY FRIDAY!!!!!! btw...

    That Night (Called her to make tentative plans)
    Me: Ill try and make it to [bar] but can't make any promises, dahling
    HB: I understand ........I guessss.......
    Me: Do a little dance for me richt now and I'll come
    HB: Lmao what
    Me: A quick twerk whenever you are....
    Me: Do it.
    HB: Ahahahahahahahahahhs s
    Me: Lmk when you did it
    Me: I trust you
    HB: I wiggled

    NEW DAY
    ME:OMG!? Whats that!?? You decided to stay in NY and want to come to parties in BK with me?!? Whoaaaaaa....I'm flattered! Yeah, I'd love to, we'll dance till the sun comes up...and then some xD
    HB: HAHAHAHHAHAH SHOREGUY!!!! I wish can we plz hang more often I'm in NJ tonight
    ME: LOL yes to hanging out and have fun in NJ dahling

    NEW DAY
    ME: ....Seattle.......re ally.... [found out she's away that weekend]
    HB: Yes😒
    Me: 😢🎻
    HB: 😔😔😔😔

    Day After (While she's still away)
    Me: YOOOO!!! Come back to NYC.....
    HB: Awww!!!! Im in Seattle

    NEW DAY
    Me: Are you aware how nice it is outside right now...!?!? What're you up? I'm going to head to the Piers in a bit to lay out xD
    HB: I am headed home to watch the pup you have the worst timing
    Me: Is it me with the bad timing though...or is it you 😘 Have fun!
    HB: Hahahahaha

    I should also mention that there were times I called her up, sent her funny voice texts, etc. as I really like changing things up and calling is so rare these days....I love calling a girl because it throws her off a bit and gives me a bit more confidence in the interaction.

    After posting and re-reading through these texts I realize all the opportunties I had to meet up and make something happen but I was either busy, or more likely....trying to play WAY too hard to get.

    Thanks for the comments and help in advance guys.

    - Shoreguy
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    You said it yourself.

    Too much time is wasted on planning, and none on actually meeting up. She'll get sick of you sooner or later, because it's starting to look like empty promises.

    Also, you're using text purely for logistics. Not something I would do, but for now, her investment in you seems like you get a free pass.

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    Default Re: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    Man what the fuck is this hard to get bullshit. ^^^

    That guy up there is right. She will get sick of you. She might even delete your phone number. If I girl is hinting at a meet up you don't say "ah, I will keep stringing her along" either you have time and commit to meeting up or she will make the decision for you and tell herself "i need dick right now, oh well, I'll call Cody"

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    Default Re: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    Your window is closing quickly, you're beating around the bush for so long that you're turning yourself into a text buddy.

    Anyway, your style is too much high energy If that works for you then keep doing it, that's what matters, but if only some girls answer positively, then you need to calibrate it a bit more.

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    Default Re: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    Your texting was great at the start, good flirting, sexual intention, she invited you out. Then it slowly deteriorated from there and went from sexual to just some guy who keeps messaging me. "Yo come back to NYC" was abit needy.

    Although you had it first night and she was reaching out for a plan a day or 2 after. If you went that night to where she is, she would of come back to yours which is fair.

    Few simple texting principles forgotten here:
    negs
    Qualifiers
    Less is more (about information of self)
    She starts conversation
    you end conversation
    establish intention of personal attraction (you did sexual, but that could of been interpreted as your horny, not she's attractive)

    but oh well, you were abit rusty.... I pretty much have to learn PUA everytime I become single until I learned to keep practice with the woman in the relo. We should really put a thread of great flirting conversation we have had together because texting game is so underrated. Yet so important if it comes to that. I have some pretty damn good ones lol.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    Tyrone share some of these conversations !!

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    Default Re: Critique My Text-Game, HB is interested...I just need to make a move.

    I got Snap shots, otherwise I will try to re type this whole thing when I have the time lol.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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