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    SHAD0WBLADE95 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Typing girls via tinder/text

    Hey guys,

    I'd like to preface this by saying I have a pretty solid understanding and ability to type a girl when talking to them in person, but I find doing it over messaging is much harder for me. It's usually much easier to build rapport, Kino, etc. once you know what kind of girl you're talking to, which is why I've been trying to figure out how to quickly do it with girls on tinder. I find sass and shit tests easy to detect and are the easiest for me to deal with/build off of, but that's about it. Does anyone have a method they use to determine how they should talk to a specific girl?

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    Default Re: Typing girls via tinder/text

    Building rapport should work across the board, be it online or not. There are minor tweaks here and there in terms of culture, but most of that is inconsequential if you stick to the basics. Just a matter of patience, for the most part. So, the answer is no. Don't complicate the process.

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    Default Re: Typing girls via tinder/text

    I know what you are saying, but I find it much harder to build with women via text versus in person. I am definitely more fun in person, which is an issue when I am building over the phone first. I think part of it is because I am way cockier in person, but I have an easier time getting a feel for what I can get away with whereas via text, I am pretty conservative.

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    Default Re: Typing girls via tinder/text

    Yep. It's WAY different. I remember having fairly solid SNL game (50+ girls) when tinder came out. Thought it would be a lay up... Dead wrong. Took a ton of refinement and now I've got a list of punctuation and grammar rules strictly for tinder/texting. I call it Girl Text. Maybe I'll post on it soon.

    Key points...
    Never use a period again when texting a girl
    3 lines or less for response
    Emojis, hashtags, dashes, ellipses, other punctuation marks, lots of text jargon (lol, haha, etc)
    Never double text
    Always have a question (preferably open-ended) or leading statement
    Space after ?
    3 thoughts max in same message
    [reward] + [rapport builder] + [follow up] is form of all messages
    And positive af

    I know it's vague. Last talk I gave on this was almost an hour long... Can PM for more details.

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    Default Re: Typing girls via tinder/text

    it's in your book isn't it ...

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    Default Re: Typing girls via tinder/text

    Quote Originally Posted by SHAD0WBLADE95 View Post
    I know what you are saying, but I find it much harder to build with women via text versus in person. I am definitely more fun in person, which is an issue when I am building over the phone first. I think part of it is because I am way cockier in person, but I have an easier time getting a feel for what I can get away with whereas via text, I am pretty conservative.
    You actually pretty much answered yourself here.

    It's nothing on the girl, it's your adaptability. Texting is ultimately a form of you expressing yourself. So if you are finding issues with texting, it boils back down to expression. Basics, really. You should be finding out how to get away with what you say in person (this can include the appropriate use of emoticons).


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