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    jas731 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Texting a girl who I have not seen in years.

    I met this girl back in late 2013 at a theatre group. I was a massive nerd and didn't really have much clue how to proceed with ladies. She gives of ioi which I obviously don't pick up on. I like her too but never ask her out. Months pass and she eventually leaves the group due to personal reasons. I know she suffers from mental health issues such as anxiety.

    At the end of 2014, she does a massive cleanup of her friends list, going from over 600 to 200. This included taking me off. I sent a friend request a few months later, but she did not respond to it. I figure "whatever, man" and proceed with my life and other ladies.

    January 2016, I decide to message her out of the blue, asking her how things were going. To my surprise, she responds a few minutes later with

    Hey darling! How unexpected

    followed immediately by

    I'm great thanks how are you? XX


    I respond with

    Not doing too shabby myself, missy! How's Uni life going for you? XX

    She apparently sees this the next morning and doesn't respond to it. I checked her profile and realised that she actually doesn't go to university. My friends figure that she may have felt embarrassed by this.

    I didn't bother following up until about a week ago, when I texted with

    Hey [name]! How are you doing? XX

    Once again, she sees this the next morning and doesn't respond. I figure I'll attempt one more message before giving up. Perhaps something to do with the drama group, which I still do attend. Any tips on making a woman like this to be more likely to respond?

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    Default Re: Texting a girl who I have not seen in years.

    I would suggest spice up your message, 'How are you' is pretty bland. Ask her if shes still into theater, or some other hobby, thats my quick suggestion.

    Check out the texting threads for more ideas.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl who I have not seen in years.

    Hi Jas

    When a woman calls you darling, that is a really big deal but you seem to have blown it with a very bland reply, instead of something that gets her juices flowing.

    With the benefit of hindsight, always a wonderful thing (Lol) you could have responded with something a little more Flirty, to let her know your nerdy days are behind you.

    Women really love it, when you are direct and when you get more experienced you will know how to push her buttons and get her attention.

    You could have said something better like

    'Hey Babe long time no see I'm taking you out, lets hook up for a Coffee and play Catch up'

    If it were me, I'd have ramped it up even higher by adding something like 'Then you can tell me all about the trouble that you have been causing while I've been away'

    But only you know her well enough to know how far you can go, without offending her in any way.

    Though women love to be perceived as being a bit naughty.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least


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