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    SleekB is offline PUA in Training
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    Default what to answer to facebook message?

    me: Hey, I just had to say that I find you incredibly attractive but I wasn't sure if I should add you since it says "Avoid, a very very bad girl" hhh. I would love to get together for a drink sometime and find out more about you. Talk to you soon, Dan.

    her: It says what? And I'm sorry but I don't meet ppl I don't know on fb LOL

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    Default Re: what to answer to facebook message?

    you should say something clever and make a joke. yeah i know what you mean, i went to meet a girl last week that messaged me and it turned out to be a 55 year old guy. I was just like; sup dude...well im going to go. peace. hahaha just make a joke and make her feel comfortable.

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    Default Re: what to answer to facebook message?

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    you should say something clever and make a joke. yeah i know what you mean, i went to meet a girl last week that messaged me and it turned out to be a 55 year old guy. I was just like; sup dude...well im going to go. peace. hahaha just make a joke and make her feel comfortable.
    that's right, although you shouldn't ask women for a date right away

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    Default Re: what to answer to facebook message?

    oh i wasnt saying ask her out but i said joke i would respond something like "Oh no i made that my new rule as well, last week i had to meet someone i thought i knew and it ended up being a wierd 55 year old man. If i talk to you please tell me if you are who you are or if you a creepy old guy :P"

    So i basically said respond with a joke that is situational to this and make her laugh. It will break the resistance to talk to her, # close and ultimately once you get the # you can get a meet/date. So for now try to lighten it up, make jokes and try and get her number. you will get a date/meet if u get the number as long as you dont fuck up

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    Default Re: what to answer to facebook message?

    sleek you have to read the matchbook method NOW. you dont understand the PU process on facebook. online being direct makes you look like a perv. It also shows you are shallow no matter what. What i do is i start being indirect and im also working on a opener and the more i tweak it the more success i have. its a matter of being subtle and then rock their world.

    also asking to go to drinks immediately is WEAK, man, it makes you look like you have all the time in the world, it makes you look like a loser with 0 social life.

    remember that she is the one that has to qualify herself to you and that she has to earn the date by being a good girl with you.

    good luck with that specific girl, since you painter yourself into a corner i would say something like:

    wait, ill put the drink on hold until i know one thing.. are you funny and fun to have around? or illl take you out for some drinks and you pay LOL

    what Crob said is a very good line to use.

    BTW the online date systems goes like this

    couple messages back and forth(around 5 is good but im a newbie and takes me like 10)

    phone exchange and move completely over into the phone

    close a date on the phone and the rest is history.

    never move back into online conversations.

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    Default Re: what to answer to facebook message?

    there we go thats exactly it. Break the ice with an opener. personally online you cant say much about their profile and have them respond. I have found that opinionated openers are the best. opinionated openers are good because women love talking about relationships and if you ask there advice, i would say like 85% of the time they will respond, if not fuck them there arent fun to talk to anyways. i once tried to force it to see the women cause i wanted to fuck and damn was she fucking boring, wasnt fun spontaneous or anything and that carried to the sex, she was a dead fish. Women who are fun will respond even if they hardly know you, now if you try to move to quickly its normal for a girl to shut you out. Like trying to # close on the first respond. You have to at least do 5-7 before number closing unless you have met them in person and talked before.


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