Re: Not sure how to respond and what would be an AFC move...need a diff prs
Response: "Never mind, Have a great time at the beach for both of us, we'll talk"
Firstly, telling her you will take someone else is going to make her defensive. No need to be an arse hole.
However, if all of a sudden you show you don't care with the response above. If she thinks you are taking someone else because out of the blue you fully agree to her not coming and completely happy with that decision then that's her fault.
At the end of the day, you want to see the sporting event. You do not require to tell her who you are going with or even if you are going with anyone. So with or without her, do what you wasnt to do, Go to the sporting event, and enjoy yourself.
Don't let her think that you are dependant on her to have a good time. Show her in your response that with or without her, you do not care. That Alpha.
Think you don't care causing her to want you more.
Think you found someone else.
Think you lost interest.
But she's thinking it, no point stimulating thoughts and being detected, when female psychology proves she is going to do it to herself anyway.
Just go, Enjoy the sporting event and when she Texts you asking you how it is, tell her how great it was, without getting into details since you are not ESPN, if she wants to know all details of who you were with or who won etc. She should of come.
Her: How was it?
Me: We'll I'm still smiling It was Awesome.
Me: So many factors, all combined. It was the perfect Chemistry. You should put it on your bucket list.
See haven't said anything false, I know when i get to sporting events that I can get beers, and hot dogs and be with like minded people so regardless if my team looses, the over all experience is great plus its something different. So im not lying at all. I';m not even trying to be mysterious.
1. My mystery comes from not being bothered telling you everything in detail so broaden/generalize to make a text shorter.
2. She wasn't there, if she wants the results, go to the game, if you want to know how my experience was then make the effort to be there with me.
You don't need to lie or manipulate. She will do it herself. Just do you, Word it in a way that leaves it broad not because you want her to manipulate herself, but simply she had the chance to experience it and she let that go so.......... fuck her.
snooze you loose.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.