Look, we ALL do stuff that is not in our best interest, and stuff that prevents us from getting to our goal. Being needy, not approaching, getting pissed, oneitis, etc. Not to put salt on the wound, but you are making another mistake now. Getting mad at me. What good will come of that? Read what I said, evaluate it, and move on. What I said either has value to you, or it does not. It is just like approaching a girl. You do it, you have success, or you fail. Let's say you fail. Do you dwell on it, throw a tantrum. No. You say, NEXT, and move on. That is ALPHA. If you don't like what I said, push it aside and move on. I am not going to worry that I have offended you. I got work to do.