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    Default Got ignored after some success with texting

    So I was texting this woman I met and things were going very good for a while(we even exchanged pictures through text). However, it seemed to me at some point that she had no interest in talking on the phone and that's when I started to get concerned. At one point I said something like "I'm not going to bug you into trying to talk to me on the phone...." Her response was basically "don't worry. You aren't bugging me...Lol." Then I replied with "Well, I might bug you you never know. ." Yes, I did put the tongue face in there. After that she didn't respond at all. I sent two more texts after that(big mistake I know). THe first was "I'll talk to you later. Have a good day." Then "Oh yes, have a happy fourth of July." Even if I stopped after the "well, I might bug you" comment I got the feeling I still wouldn't have heard back from her. She's asian(though I don't know where she was born) and so might not have the same sense of humor as me or be as forgiving as other women.

    Anyway, I want to get better with texting and not keep making these dumb mistakes.

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    She finally got back to me but referred to me as "buddy."

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    I'm no expert but if I were you I would shortly call her cute and send something about how she reminds you of your little sister/cousin or something. Return the disqualification.

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    I already called her "buddy" back(I said "thanks buddy.") But it's kind of like when someone calls you a jerk and you call them a jerk in response. It's not quite as powerful as the first "jerk." Anyway, I already tried a disqualification when I told her I would bug her and it didn't work. I guess this stuff doesn't work on all women.

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    I would avoid telling anyone that you might bug/annoy them, or apologize for bugging/annoying them. Go in with the Mindset "They're lucky I'm talking to them". It shows more confidence!

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    Well, I didn't apologize. The first mistake I made was when I said "don't worry I won't bug you...." which obviously sounds like I'm trying to please her. I have to remember to think before I send texts. LOL.

    I remember reading somewhere that texts should be used mainly for setting up dates and making plans etc. If I stick to that rule I should be ok.

    So I guess she put me in the friendzone here. Lol. Oh well.

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    Ah only practice will help! I like texting too much to stick to that rule aha.

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    Yes, texting can be very addictive but it's not a substitute for meeting in person. The more you text the more likely it is you will mess up and do something to turn her off(like I did)so I actually think it's a good idea to keep the texting to a minimum. As they say you learn from your mistakes.

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    Her sense of humor... Did you make a joke?

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    Default Re: Got ignored after some success with texting

    Quote Originally Posted by Alesana View Post
    Ah only practice will help! I like texting too much to stick to that rule aha.
    Be very careful with this . You all know my texting interactions from previous posts and one thing that they all have in common is that I go for the date. If you dangerously keep texting her in a prolonged interaction you will send her The Vibe that either one "maybe I like him more as a friend" 2 " hmm when is he going to ask me out" or 3" does this guy have a life"

    Guys make the mistake of learning the art of texting and just texting and texting but never going for the kill.

    As for Mike, you are shooting yourself in the foot by saying things like "don't want to bug you" if you know it's on then keep going, but always assume that she wants to you see regardless. Keep the positive thoughts in your head and be decisive. If you want to call her just say "hey, stop what you're doing, I'd like to talk to you for a bit, just don't use up all my minutes "


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