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    flyguyinMN is offline PUA in Training
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    Default HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Guys,

    So my text game I would say is pretty strong. Let me break down the situation for y'all.

    I tend to add any HB 7+ that I see who comments on my friends FB posts, just to build my pool so to speak.

    Anyhow I opened a HB 9 on FB about a week ago and got her messaging back and a forth a bit, playful fun, etc. Set-up a preliminary date for tomorrow night to take her to a baseball game (said she'd have to see what time her baby daddy is picking up her kid)

    Phone Number Close "I don't want to have to use up all my data texting your cute ass"

    Once we transitioned into texting her responses became shorter and she never initiated texts.

    After a couple days her responses became nearly non-existent, after 3-4 playful texts from me in a day she would respond back at night "just got home from work"

    Freeze Out for a day and then hit her up with playful text

    "just got off work, I could use either a basket full of puppies or a stiff drink right about now (and I'm pretty sure all of the pet stores are closed)... you buying?" (Thanks TMal)

    this caught her interest, text back and forth a bit bout her puppy, finally I said "so I guess I'm buying? lol" to which she responded "where do you live?" after telling her I received no reply, send a follow up playful text to no avail. Told her she was silly and to call me later (never heard back)

    Unrespoonsive to 3 or 4 playful texts over the next 2 days, freeze out for 3/4 of the day, hit her up with another playful text

    "What are you upto tonight? I was thinking either drinks, watch the purge or jewel heist date... do you own a ski mask?"

    received reply "LMFAO, I have my son until Monday"

    Another playful text from me and no response.

    The next day (4th of July) a couple playful text with no response, asked her a boring question "What kind of car do you drive" she responded "SHO", attempted to demonstrate higher value with text about my car and received no response.

    Last paragraph was yesterday.

    So now we have this baseball game tomorrow that she preliminary agreed to go to, yet at this point I am unsure of her intentions or how to even broach the topic considering her lack of responsiveness.

    So gentlemen, critique, advice, etc.

    Thanks!

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    flyguyinMN is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Update!!!

    Sent her text today:

    ME: "Whats up snowflake? Game starts at 7, I'll pick you up at 6:33... whats your address?"

    Her: "Lol. I work at fantastic sams tonight."

    Me: "I thought you had the day off? Oh well, more peanuts and cracker jacks for me "


    And that is where we are at now... I suppose I will Freeze Out and reopen in a couple days?

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    Jironasaurus is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Walk away. She's not interested.

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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Right, but isn't the idea of pick-up to create interest?

    I know that if I could just get the date with her that I could generate far more interest... I knew this would be a big challenge especially considering she didn't know me at all before I randomly messaged her on Facebook.

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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Yeah, I suppose I'd walk away. Seems any further pursuing when she's not interested will just lower her interest completely to zero.

    Somebody with options wouldn't waste any more time with this girl. She flakes out on you and she's done. She lost her chance.

    That being said, she may just not be interested because you guys don't really know each other. You've never met in person, right? So, I can see why she wouldn't want to go out with a guy she's never met in person before. Some people aren't comfortable with that sort of thing even if you guys have been texting or talking over phone. So, maybe a good idea would've been to address this in a playful way. Maybe would increase her comfort about getting together.

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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Quote Originally Posted by flyguyinMN View Post
    Right, but isn't the idea of pick-up to create interest?

    I know that if I could just get the date with her that I could generate far more interest... I knew this would be a big challenge especially considering she didn't know me at all before I randomly messaged her on Facebook.
    You can't win every battle.

    Besides, you did create interest. That's how you got the number. You just lost it along the way.

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    jojo_flores is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    i wouldve invited her somewhere where she can bring her friends (you bring your) and where she has a really good chance of exiting. maybe like a club scene. not as much commitment needed from both parties, and you can chat up other women to show her youre desirable. but at this point, let it go. shes not interested.

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    Default Re: HB 9 Weird Texter?

    Something very sudden and very new which specifically you are not doing. Women are over-exposed to men chasing them down for dates. especially on the "day of" then we get all fussy when they don't make the date (example above) but I do it all the time too so I am guilty as well.


    Anyway something I am doing that I will keep doing....

    Let them chase
    Let them set up the dates
    Or keep the date


    I am going to keep trying this due to all the flakes and how quickly they go from liking you then bailing on you after for sure agreeing to you. I know one thing if they are chasing you they can't turn you down. So I am essentially NOT asking chicks on dates anymore (been very effective) however my mistake is I have been "confirming dates" that THEY asked me too. And that's where I screwed up. So start flaking on chicks yeah seems odd but women are over-exposed to it.

    My method has worked for them asking me out. I will let them confirm the dates from now on and actually after being ditched 100 times for 100 other things I will just for now as an experiment let the female/target maintain the entire dating/meeting up thing.

    Not asking for phone numbers, addresses, dates anymore (at least for now) we'll see how it goes and I'll write a post about. Got a POF chick right now. She asked me to hookup with her. Got her email but no phone or addess. So I am trying it out on her first. SHE has to maintain when and if we meet up because I am not going to ask her. It's their job for the time being. Get back to you guys on this.
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