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    Seanstyle1983 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Texting AFTER a date

    So, I started talking to this girl on OkCupid on Saturday. The exchanges went so well, that we met up on Monday night. The date went amazing, and about an after after this is what I texted:

    Me: You're fun. Maybe I can witness full-on shit my pants Julia soon (already an inside joke between us)
    Her: Lol yeah, it was fun! Thanks! We can definitely party sometime.
    Me: Party Sean and party Julia together? The world may implode...hopefully you're prepared
    Her: Lol, maybe

    So, then I legitimately got busy with work/life and didn't text for a couple of days. So, with the weekend coming up, I reached out for a second date

    Me: Julia! Are we drinking some beer together tomorrow?!
    Her: I have something tomorrow
    Me: Oh yeaaaah...you definitely told me that before lol (She did tell me that, I just forgot honestly)

    Nothing since then...not really sure when to text again or really what to say. Any suggestions?

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    Jironasaurus is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Texting AFTER a date

    Could have tried to arrange another date there and then.

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    Seanstyle1983 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Texting AFTER a date

    Well...yeah. I realize that NOW.

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    Jironasaurus is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Texting AFTER a date

    Focus on following up more, before asking for another date. Do it for a day, then work towards a date the next. You need it, particularly since you "disappeared" for a few days there.

    Do some call-back humour if need be, to remind her again of the date you guys went on.


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