So this is the story of my life; Match with girl on tinder, chat, get number, message, try to set up a meet up which is where I usually run into problems. The girl either says shes busy, makes a random excuse or the conversation just dies out.
Seeing as this as happened more than once I've gone over several of my messages and I think the problem is that i'm not building enough attraction. I've included a sample message of a conversation that just recently happened. What could I have done better, what should I do so this doesn't happen..I'll love to hear what you guys think, don't hold back.
Me: Serious question...your top in the second pic, is it white and gold or blue and black? (in reference to one of her pictures)
Her: Good question (She sent this 2hrs after her previous reply)
Me: Don't let the fame change you when you go viral and everyone is trying to take pictures of you in the dress, remember we made this happen together haha
Her: lol i'll try not to
Me: Try...You would have moved to Hollywood and left me here haha
Her: I would never
Me: I believe you..you seem like the kind of girl who values personal relationships especially when it involves family...that's awesome (cold read based on her pictures)
Her:I do, very important to me
Me: If you're wondering how I could tell, your eyes gave you away
Her: What about my eyes tells you that?
Me: Hmm you're asking me to reveal my trade secret
Her: I guess I am
Me: Ahh must resist temptation..how about you tell me something about yourself first
Her: I'm in doing *** in school, I love it!! umm I like sports, I love my friends and family, my most the most
Me: oh yea the picture with your mum says a thousands word
Her: Yeah she's my world!
Me: Thats sweet! You're fun to talk to..i think we can graduate from tinder to something like text, what do you think?
Her Yes for sure..***
Me: Hey! How's your Monday going -My Name
Her: Going pretty good, how about you?
Me: Trying not to get infected with the Monday blues, don't know how much longer I can last
Her: Aww, keep up the positive vibees! Where do you work
Me: I'll tell you if you come help me fend it off. My strength is weakening.
Her: Haha you can do it, I'm sure your day is almost done
Me: Your positive vibes is going to keep me going..are you done for the day
Her: yes i am lol thank goodness lol
Me: trying to make me jealous haha..what're you up to for the rest of the day
Her: going home to see my niece, you'll be off work before you know it sure
Me: they'll be excited to see you
Her: she was excited to see me!!
Me: whatever you did to her you'll have to do the same when we meet so I get excited as she was
Her: Haha she loves her aunt
Me: Shes family so I'm at a disadvantage there haha..I like getting exited though, what day are you free this week we should meet up
Her: I think you are
Her: I'm pretty busy so I will have to let you know (this was sent 8 hours after the previous text)
Me: You should think about it then do it.. I've heard things about her job, tell me the rumors aren't true (I think this is where I messed up cause the next couple exchanges are about places she's worked at)
Her: haha what kind of things did you hear and i'll let you know if they are true haha
Me: Don't make me think of it again after suppressing it..it's a positive sign that you can laugh at it though, means you're coping well haha
Me: does this mean you no longer work at *****. I feel betrayed :P lol
Her: haha why do you say that
Me: I can't get my donut fix from you if you no longer work there
Her: haha how'd you know I worked there or stopped working there
Me: Don't freak out..i'm a part time psychic
Her: oh nice
Me: it also says so on your bio
Her: oh yeah haha
Me: Working at *** and *** at the same time..that's some superhuman level stamina you've got haha
Her: I don't really work at *** anymore but i'm a ** and also working at ***
Me: If you could only do one which one would it be
Me: Haha nothing's getting between you and your undying love for nursing
Her: Nope it is not! You still haven't told me where you work
Me: Hmm you have a good memory, bet that comes in handy when you do your job
Me: anyway I do xyz for a abc company so basically *described my job in funny layman term* (looking back I think I should have said something like I'll you that over drinks or something like that)
She hasn't responded since then. What can I say to re-engage here (the last message was sent on Wednesday) and set a meet up or is this another number down the drain. More importantly where do you think it went wrong? How can I reduce the chances of it happening again.