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Thread: Awesome date - next morning texted - no response for 24 hrs

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    Default Awesome date - next morning texted - no response for 24 hrs

    Hey guys,

    So need some advice on an "after the first date" situation... the AFC in me I am trying to exorcize out is still haunting me, just to a much smaller degree. LOL.
    Met at a restaurant at 12:30 for a lunch date Saturday, lots of conversation, got her laughing and had fun, etc. We ended up hanging out for 4 hours, and agreed to meet this week or weekend. She was direct about how open her week was for her.

    Now, there had been one time prior to meeting where she stopped talking, and used the old "Did you get kidnapped by aliens?" spiel via text, and she came back a while later and apologized about neglecting the text. So this has happened before, might be a flaky mind but she is a smart girl, so I may not be creating enough attraction. This is what I am digging into research wise now.

    So, I sent a text yesterday morning (Sun) saying I had a great time at lunch, and hope she has fun today (with a friend she was supporting that day going through a bad breakup who has a kid, she is working with how to have fun with small kids.. LOL). Had not received a response all last night or today, and I know she is a nine to fiver.

    My plan is to send a text this evening after she has been of work for a while, and kind of go in this direction.

    ME: Hey, did you get kidnapped by aliens again, or was it pirates this time? :P. Will Tuesday or Thursday work best for you this week?

    Now, I have read enough on this site that I should use some follow up first before getting the second date, but we have kind of already agreed we want to see each other again, so since she has stated she wants someone who takes the lead, I thought I would just go for the jugular?

    As always, appreciate straight honesty and advice. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Awesome date - next morning texted - no response for 24 hrs

    Dude, do not run that alien thing again, it comes off as needy, what you need to do is no matter how much it bothers you when she doesn't text, don't ever let her know that it bothers you and dont ever question why she hasn't texted you because afterall, you are a busy guy with lots of things to do and your not dependent on one girl texting you. If that's not the reality create the allusion. Also I have a rule, if it's a good date I text them about an hour after it ends usually with "you really impressed me tonight/today, and I don't get impressed very easily ... keep up the good work" ...... Good Luck

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    Default Re: Awesome date - next morning texted - no response for 24 hrs

    I like the above, pretty solid. Texting shortly after the date is key. Pretty big actually, almost weirdly big. You know what it says... we connected, I can talk to you whenever. She loves that. (anyone loves connection, no need to be one minded, you meet a cool guy, "bro, just bumper checked the car behind me trying to park at my complex, whoops ha" "dude, you stupid, lol"). It's all connection, you get it.

    Your mistake came from leaving after 4 hours. If she didn't have some real, I mean real, finite plans, that Saturday should have been the both of yours. All day, maybe most of the night. You can separate at 10 if your conservative, or take her home at 2am if your not. The comfort is the key. If you like someone, and you feel comfortable, you spend as much time as you can with them. In my opinion, (and of course everyone's game runs different than everyone else's) you run that date as long as you can.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Awesome date - next morning texted - no response for 24 hrs

    Let's examine this for a moment. Mystery Method said to unlearn what you have already learned. Stop relearning what you already know doesn't work. Texting her the morning after? Bleh. Probably made yourself predictable. Remember it is better to get the girls to chase YOU nowadays.

    Here's a suggestion

    Next time you have a killer date go NC on them
    See if she hits YOU up

    Still won't win you the girl but can help keep you alive.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack


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