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    Wilson90 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is her interest low based on these texts?

    So here's the story, I am at a walk-up/diner burger joint. This chick walks up with her friend. Instantly asks how my night is going. We chat it up for a few, she's throwing me signs by showing me very warm body language, flirting, etc. She asks where I'm from, finds out that I'm new in town, starts recommending me places to go eat, clubs, etc.

    I really wasn't too into wanting to get her number for a lay so I decided to gauge her interest level. As I'm leaving, I write down my number and give it to her. Just like blah, I don't wanna put the effort in as I'm already handling a few right now. I did this not expecting her to get a hold of me (because they rarely ever do). She tells me that she'll get a hold of me and that we'll get together soon, go out, etc. Blah Blah Blah.

    Surprisingly, She texts me 2 days later, here is how it went.

    Her 7/12/2017 7:24 PM Hey it's Emily the girl from greens

    Me 7/12/2017 8:17 PM Hey you! Welcome to the world of cell phone communication
    Her 7/12/2017 8:17 PM Haha very funny
    Me 7/12/2017 8:27 PM I tend to have a slight sense of humor lol
    Her 7/12/2017 8:44 PM That's a good thing
    Her 7/12/2017 8:44 PM What's your sign?
    Me 7/12/2017 8:57 PM Libra
    Me 7/12/2017 8:57 PM Wbu?

    Her 7/12/2017 9:32 PM Gemini
    Me 7/12/2017 10:33 PM So what area are you from?
    Her 7/13/2017 11:06AM Redford/Detroit

    Please notice the time gaps between texts and how short they are. I'm simply just not replying back because I'd rather wait till maybe like Friday night or the weekend to get together.

    Any thoughts on this?

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    Mike413 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Is her interest low based on these texts?

    First of all never do the text speak thing(wyd, etc)except for maybe bfn or ttyl. Always, except for the aforementioned exception type out everything properly. Anyway, it sounds like you did ok. Try to set something up like maybe meet up for a coffee or you could get together with friends. You just don't want it to be a formal date kind of thing because that sets up too many false expectations and will inevitably put you in provider mode where she will maybe expect you to pay for her all the time etc. Yuck. But so far so good. Just keep it casual. There are guides on here for texting so see if you can find those also. Good luck.

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