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    Angler Bill is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice for keeping her interest

    I've finally got a woman on POF that is expressing interest. My hobby is fishing and she has said she does want to go but due to her work schedule it will be at least a couple more weeks before her schedule will allow. We have only exchanged a few messages on POF. I have not asked for her real email address nor phone number at this time. She is replying to the couple of questions I have asked in a short amount of time not days. My concern is how do I keep her interest in me and I know not to bombard her with a bunch of message exchanges on POF. Need advice on how to proceed on keeping her interest lever and not coming off as needy....

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    Default Re: Advice for keeping her interest

    Keep it playful and get to know her a bit. Eventually she will be comfortable with giving out her number. Girls are like that. They meet a lot of thirsty and weird guys on POF. Show her that you're pretty awesome.

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    Default Re: Advice for keeping her interest

    What Mr. Assertive said, as well as mixing up your times in messaging her. Write her back a few times quick and then let it sit for a few hours.

    Also, think about how your conversations flow in real life. Is it all question and answer? if it is, I bet someone is getting bored. If she is asking questions back, you got a good start. Start making open ended statements, she will too, this is how you open up a conversation over POF/text.

    Personally, I hate doing this. If she isn't willing to meet in the next 5 days or so, I'll message her if I feel like it, and if she doesn't get back, so be it. I've been out with 2 girls from POF after texting for a week and a half plus, I didn't like either of them. I went out with 15 or so within 5 days (back when it was bigger), and things went much better getting to know them there.

    Of course, as Mr. Assertive said, girls need a little more time, so calibrate and make your call.
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