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  1. #1
    Budco83 Guest

    Default Facebook convo pasted here. What went wrong?

    Hey, I copied and pasted this Facebook IM conversation. Sorry, it's kinda long. It started on a mutual friend's comments. She was a girl I knew from school. Always had a crush on me. She added me and this is where we picked up on IM. Thought it was going good. What went wrong?

    2:18amMe

    Hey, decided to move this off Jeremy's link.. ha we kinda hijacked it. I aint been out in O'Fallon for a while either (beside visiting) I'm in warrenton. Where do u live now a days?
    2:22amKristina

    oh im in Florissant
    not too far away
    Warrenton is pretty far
    2:23amMe

    yea, it kinda sucks but I stay outta trouble..

    Wasnt your last name something else before am I trippin?

    2:24amKristina

    lol
    yes
    *%&*%#*
    i always hated my last name
    2:25amMe

    ok, thats what i thought but thought i mighta been crazy.. lol did u get married or wut?

    2:26amKristina

    yes
    still married just separated
    I remember you from school, you were nice
    2:26amMe

    Yea, I dont believe in marriage.. haha idk just seems like it curses relationships..

    2:27amKristina

    yeah well it just didnt work out
    it happens to the best of us i guess
    rushed into it
    2:28amMe

    Yea, and it makes for an expensive break-up, but u live and learn right?.. u always seemed like a sweet girl back in school

    2:28amKristina

    thanks bud
    i was cool with most ppl
    some i couldnt stand of course
    but
    yeah we didnt have a big wedding or anything
    but theres one good thing about it all, is my son Dominic, I love him so much
    2:29amMe

    yea, i know wut u mean. i was in a relationship for 3 years and i got my daughter so it was well worth the BS i deal with now..

    How old's your son?

    2:29amKristina

    yeah i think its mostly the age difference between us
    2 1/2
    3 in Aug
    hes 39 and I will be 28
    so I think thats what it is
    idk
    2:31amMe

    my daughter just turned 3 in march.. yea, i see older guys being possessive but idk thats kinda a stereotype from the few i've seen

    not personally hahaha

    2:31amKristina

    i know
    no worries
    i saw a pic of u and Heather
    u guys tight?
    2:31amMe

    yea, that was fun. yea, shes a good friend of mine, wut about you 2?

    2:32amKristina

    we talk here and there
    but havent hung out or anything, I think shes pretty cool chick
    2:32amMe

    shes pretty cool, not judgemental pretty open type of person

    2:33amKristina

    yeah i usually just say hi on fb
    2:33amMe

    so do u have your son most the time?

    2:33amKristina

    thats all
    yeah well i have been sick for like 4 days
    so hes been with daddy
    i miss him
    so ive been cleaning like crazy
    i will have him next few nights
    2:34amMe

    that sucks but at least daddys still around, i have my daughter about 4 days a week

    shes a big daddys girl

    2:34amKristina

    thats about the same for me
    thats cool
    how old is she
    2:34amMe

    3

    2:35amKristina

    sorry u already told me that
    i must be tired
    thats cool
    2:35amMe

    do u have your daughter saturday? i'm takin my friend out for his 21st

    son sry

    i'm tired too

    2:35amKristina

    actually
    yes
    but i have to work this wknd
    we rotate wknds
    so im on for this one
    have fun for the big 21
    2:36amMe

    i worked the last 2, we do the same usually

    2:36amKristina

    yeah i cant wait for my vacation in July
    2:36amMe

    where u goin? florida's outta the question

    2:36amKristina

    so what do u do
    oh
    just chillin here i guess
    with my boy
    no big plans
    but my friend from VA is coming up
    VA Beach
    so im excited
    money is tight right now otherwise, yes, travel time for me
    2:37amMe

    i just quit my job of 3-4 years in construction, got a job at denny's and am working on getting my GED and going to college. no risk, no reward

    2:37amKristina

    good for u
    i like dennys
    which one?
    2:38amMe

    sucks now but hopefully it'll pay off, kindof a gamble. warrenton

    2:38amKristina

    oh
    yeah well u have to take risks
    sometimes
    2:39amMe

    Hey I got to get ready 4 bed, but I'd like to talk some more, give me your #.. I'll text u sometime

    2:39amKristina

    i would but i dont text
    i know
    im old school
    my phone is so old is crazy
    i have a i530 phone
    will be updating soon
    i barely get text for real
    2:40amMe

    haha well I'll call then, hang out sometime

    2:40amKristina

    lol
    i know
    yeah im about ready 2 go 2 bed myself
    night owl these days
    2:40amMe

    me 2

    2:40amKristina

    i will hit u up on fb
    im always on here for real
    (like its going out of style)
    2:41amMe

    cool, i'll talk 2 ya then. have a goodnight

    2:41amKristina

    i work alot
    so
    you too, nice to chat with ya
    ttyl

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    Default Re: Facebook convo pasted here. What went wrong?

    lol wow i felt like i was reading a boring novel. your werent different, fun or playful. it just seemed like you guys were catching up. you talk to much about her ex, you talked to much about ur ex, you werent playful or fun. just dull and boring. i mean next time have it be very playful and make her laugh. i dont rememberr a single lol or haha in her messages. girls put that when they are happy and laughing inside so try to make it more fun for her and not much of an interview. its a great rapport builder when you guys both have children.
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

  3. #3
    Budco83 Guest

    Default Re: Facebook convo pasted here. What went wrong?

    I can def see your point! lol Thanks for pointing that out. Any articles you'd suggest on being playful and fun? I'm not real witty when it comes to crackin jokes. Unless I'm intoxicated then I'm alright. If the rest would have been on point, how was the # close? Was that about right?

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    Default Re: Facebook convo pasted here. What went wrong?

    lol i dont remember you getting the number....i just saw that you asked....lol and you cant have someone teach you to be fun and playful. just do whatever comes to mind, and even if it isnt fun or playful just try to make it that way. play games, like the cube, a ring routine, 5 questions, the question game. just anything to make her laugh and then tease her. i cant really teach you to be fun or playful, you just have to do it naturally. and the entire thing doesnt have to be playful, it would have been better if you just had some things where she laughed and was having a great time. but you just lead the convo to like interview style getting to know what happened since high school. and never try to talk about ex.'s.
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  5. #5
    Budco83 Guest

    Default Re: Facebook convo pasted here. What went wrong?

    *# close.. fail*. Yes I know. lol but the structure of it, was my question... Cool, I'm gonna check those games out, I'll also just try to entertain myself and see how it works. Either way, good practice.. But.. I'm learning flaws in my attempts that I didnt even know I had. Good things to know so I can iron them out. Thanks again.


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