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    Default Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    I've been meeting up with this girl a couple of times, we went to a local swimming area and short story french K-close on first date awesome isn''t it?? Could have been.. After that I went to her house a week later and then nothing happend cause she was coming down with the flu, but got a good-bye kiss (LAME, i know) I had a surgery so I am on "sticks" and then a month past and she came over yesterday and I thought that it's on.. But no way, cold as hell, no ioi's, no nothing so now I'm going to tell you what happend..

    She came over to my place, she had borrowed a car from her parents (eventhough she has a MC, which she loves), she called me when she arrived cause she was scared of going in the wrong entrance. So I went out and she tried to hug me, kinda hard on sticks so when we came to my room a got rid of them and tolled her to come over here (to get a better hug), to which she replyed no?!? but we hugged and I asked if that wasn't a better hug than the other one and he said year sure (Whatever).. Didn't think to much about it but then we sat down to watch a movie (I know.. I hated myself for it, but what the hell should I do, I'm on Farking sticks!) so we had a normal conversation talking about what had happend in the time we were appart and she had become a part of a MC-stunt team.
    During all this I was trying to get some kino going.. I met her at Ju-jitsu training some years back, so just some friendly fighting, you know to get her closer to me but she kept moving away?!? I wanted to tell her something serious, so a put my hand on her cheek like before you kiss and moved her head so she was looking me in the eyes, instantly her hand went up to kinda keep me on distance WTF?!? so after this I went to the toilet just to clear the air and get out of the room and the situation and here I thought " it's going nowhere, WTF do I do??" so When I returned to the room her body language had changed aswell, crossed arms and legs so I frezed her out by sitting as far from her as possible and that helped.. she talked a lot again then she said that she had to get home after like 1˝ hours (was just thinking fark U we havn't been together for a bloody month and now you leave?!?) and she left no kissing, no shit!

    Here I just thought fark it lets go AFC and really fark this up.. so i texted her something about that was shit (the end of the movie) could have been both movie and date, who ever was reading it.. and after that i got a weak answar so I wrote back that I was just sitting here all alone with an empty feeling inside.. she replied, What?!? why?.. and just wrote to her that I would text her today instead..

    Can anybody help me out on how to get the spark back.. We are Probably meeting wedensday next week for some "graduations" (at ju-jitsu) and she just replied on a text now

    I'm thinking about keeping Freezing Her Out and maybe bring a girl friend wedensday.. but I'm not sure

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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    P.S. She is GF-material.. sorry to say it guys, but im getting very sick.. One-itis on the way
    Just hate myself for it!!!!! F U C K!! :@

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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    ok that aint a problem. oneitis only kills you when it affects your game. but if you can have oneitis and run solid game aint nothing wrong. Lots of guys on here always say stay away from oneitis. and i usually agrre cause then guys think about them all the time and blow up their phone and their game just goes to shit. thats why we always suggest getting more women cause then your not thinking about just one and not texting just one so it basically helps keep your mind occupied.

    As far as freezing out, i would suggest it if you think it will work and the girl thing i would do the same. if she is a girl that will fight for your attention when another girl is around, fucking do it. Just get the hottest friend you know and tell her "hey you should come be my wingwomen and ill treat you to chipotle" or something like that. But it seems like she is either getting bored with you and losing attraction or she was just in a bitchy mood. cause shit, refusing a better hug, and shit like that is just bitchy. i mean refusing kiss i can understand.

    But if you want to freeze her out, get her really excited about the event. not thats its going to be just you guys but that your excited. then get something going between you guys. perfect time for some roleplaying. then when she sees you with another chick just be non shalant. oh i just brought her along and were going to hang out afterwards. but also try to tell your wingwomen you need to show ioi's in her and vice versa so it looks like somethings going on. this will make it click in her head, oh i can just fall back on this guy, he has other girls and i need to step up my game to get him to myself.
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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    You have oneidis no doubt. We have all been there. My thought with this chick is she was having a bad day on top of the time gap that causes the attraction to be lost. Women are not logical creatures they function on emotion. So if you are not stimulating her emotionally she will get bored and move on. Doesn’t mean you cant be friends with her, but your going to fall into the No sex zone ( lol new fav term thanks again dude). So you need to stimulate her. Freeze her out, make her jealous, and don’t go all soft the next time. STAY ALPHA DUDE! I cant stress this enough.

    What this sounds like to me is incongruence. Sounds like what you did to get her to kiss you when she did, and what your doing now are not the same. As a result the attraction you built goes away. Also the time frame between when yall hooked up and when yall saw each other is probly a factor. You have to cover these gaps in physical contact with solid game. This is where good phone game, and good text game come into play. Crob is really good at this, hit him up for some help on it.

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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    Thanks guys.. Bad news though.. four letters LJBF, but should I accept it or just tell her to fark herself??

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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    option two haha unless you feel like she can introduce you to new hot girls
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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    All depends on what you want dude. I disagree with crob here. I have tons of girl friends, some I have sarged, some I have farked, some I have known for years. Nothing wrong with being friends with her, just don’t let it become a oneidis, and don’t be AFC with her. Be very alpha, don’t jump through her hoops.

    Nothing better than walking into a club with 3 or 4 women on your arms that raises your preselection value through the roof!

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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    lol i was jk. if you can make her a solid wingwomen and get her help that get in there. and then you could always fuck sometime but it all depends on how alpha you are and how you continue to spit game
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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    You should definitely "accept" it, but keep having a solid game and improving it, you can be her friend but don't become a GAY one, be an Alpha one as i read above, you know the stuff that says: you don't know what you have until you lose it!, things can always change, specially with women... continue to get more, the more you have the better, don't focus on just one...
    Best reggards

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    Default Re: Serious Problems.. Help needed as soon as possible :(

    I hate to say it but it sounds like she's found someone else or lost interest. There was a lot of time between your original K-close and the final date on sticks. The more you pushed, asking for a better hug, etc sounds kinda AFC. I'd agree to just be friends, but get yourself into situations where things can develop further without talking about it.


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