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    Keith2 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Did I get flaked on or what?

    So, I met a girl online. We emailed back and forth 3 times. I got her number. We talked on the phone. I was making her laugh her ass off, we got along great, I was very alpha and ended the conversation first. Before that we set up a date for the next day... kind of.

    She said that she was coming into the city (from Brooklyn 40 min train ride) to have dinner with her friends and would have time to meet. I said that would be perfect to meet before hand around 5:30 and then she could meet her friends. She said she had to ask her friends and confirm the time and would call me tomorrow. I told her text me in the afternoon and let me know because I'll be busy and can't talk on the phone all day with her.

    Next day comes up and at 4:00 still nothing so I call. I don't leave a message and send a text asking her, So, what's the deal?

    No response.

    Yikes what happened?

    Should I call back today or tomorrow or wait longer? send a text? Help me out!

    Thanks in advance! you guys are so helpful!

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    Default Re: Did I get flaked on or what?

    dont chase after her. somthing might have come up. If you chase her its going to make you look really needy reduce attraction. Give it a day or so then send her something on text be playful and light dont try to make her feel bad, and dont act mad, infact act unaffected at all.


    Crob can give you some better advice as to exactly what to say to her.

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    Androkles Guest

    Default Re: Did I get flaked on or what?

    Flakes are bound to happen, however don't sweat it. The time you spend right now trying to figure out what happened, when obviously it was her who flaked out, and is being rude by not responding. Spend your time now to pursue other women, not wasting time.
    She knows shes flaked, and unless some sort of catastrophic emergency came up that her phone was damaged, or her ability to use her phone was damaged there really is no excuse for that bad behavior. Never chase a flake, let her come to you if she wants to arrange something again, but never waste your own time on someone like that.

    Treat your time like gold, and people will truly be attracted and drawn to you.

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    Coyote Guest

    Default Re: Did I get flaked on or what?

    Quote Originally Posted by Androkles View Post
    Flakes are bound to happen, however don't sweat it. The time you spend right now trying to figure out what happened, when obviously it was her who flaked out, and is being rude by not responding. Spend your time now to pursue other women, not wasting time.
    She knows shes flaked, and unless some sort of catastrophic emergency came up that her phone was damaged, or her ability to use her phone was damaged there really is no excuse for that bad behavior. Never chase a flake, let her come to you if she wants to arrange something again, but never waste your own time on someone like that.

    Treat your time like gold, and people will truly be attracted and drawn to you.
    thanks mate. i needed to hear that and be reminded. i have had a couple of flakes lately and i have got straight on the horse and gone after other quarry. its hard not to get disappointed though... and a bit disillusioned in humanity. some people seem to flake their way through life and not suffer for it

    anyway i just gotta work on me. its about self esteem and self worth, valuing my time like that. i gotta remember that and get back to focussing on my game

    thanks


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