Re: Facebook game plan comments please
i actually agree with tcomea here. and your right as well. she is investing somewhat but not investing in you. she is investing in the advice. best way is to bring her back in and neg/dhv some. you did good with resuming your opener but now you want to transition and naturally build rapport and comfort. this actually set you up for some rolepaying. one you might be familiar with and one that you wouldnt have to mask. haha i have never tried this but since i just thought about it i might. try roleplaying like a guy (pua) approaching a girl and being direct and pretty much act it out. this allows you to neg, build comfort/rapport, build sexual tension, and then be different and playful.
Her:No way. He absolutely shouldn't write her another one. I am reading a relationship book called "He's just not that into you" n i think it is the same to female. She's not responding if she's just not that into him. So, what i am suggesting him to do is either giving up or changing another method to approach her. Writing letters is only a single way of communication. U neva know what she is thinking n feeling. I think women in the 21st centuries are more interested in men have guts. Why not tell her straightly dat he likes her?? ask her out to dinner or something. May be he will find something he doesn't like about her during dating, or may be she starts to feel interest in him when they go out n talk more. Who knows?!
Me: woah woah there crazy pants!! i think thats a total lie. i have tried it. not really a winner!! :P just like in the movie Hitch. you can never go up to a girl and say I LIKE YOU. thats against the rules!
Her: oh whatever it works sometimes!
Me: no way. thats crazy!! so lets say im a guy off the street and we talk and boom i drop that line. what would you do?!? no lies either, i can tell your one of those girls!!
i mean i could probably make it better but thats this jist. dont qualify yourself or need approval and dont directly ask her like your into her. just play the role. and make sure you keep it light and always let your intention be known by proper textanese. haha
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