i got probably an old question for this but my situation is weird. I'm a reasonably good PUA, high score recently hit 50, so after some break up whoring around I'm sure that i want this girl back. around 18 months ago i met a girl who was studying abroad here in Ireland while she was studying abroad. when she went home last june we stayed in contact and did the whole skype thing. last christmas she came back for a week. i was back in college so couldn't afford to come over to see her until just about now. while she was here she asked to be a couple and i said i think its best if we leave it undefined. about a month before we broke up when she moved back to Jersey after graduating from college things started getting a bit weird and it was obvious she had started seeing someone else. in theory this shouldn't be a big deal as i was seeing other girls during this time as well. any way i confronted her on it and we basically splint in really undefined terms. we had a few e-mails after that where i poured my heart out to her (mistake i know) then about a week ago i sent her an email saying its probably a good thing we broke up and that its for the best for both of us in the long run etc. a week later we skyped again for the first time since breaking up 3 weeks ago and it was very normal. we didn't talk about "us" just about other things and it went well. at the end she said she was feeling sick and wanted to lie down, probably an excuse for the conversation tapering out.
I'm unsure where to go from here I'm thinking of going to NJ in September (i'm from there originally so its not inconceivable that i'd go there) and hoping to meet up then. am i waiting to long? not long enough. how should i play my contact with her from then on.