I use Match.co - only site in my area with any action.
I'm 49 & want to date 38-42 but the searches are set up by age & most all my age range list between 33-47 so they never see my profile. I get plenty of action from my profile with 47-53 & down to 39 but not enough in the younger range. The older ones seem too old to me when we meet- no matter how good they seem online.
When I email to younger women I get no response- these are the same things that work when I am in their age range.
How do I get through the age thing online?
Do I bring it up in the email- never have before.
Don't want to lie about my age but almost feel forced to - but I don't think I could change it now anyway - been on Match 5 mos- it would be too obvious.
Thought of putting in lower age in box & addressing it in fun way in profile.
Anything worked for any of you?