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    El_Draque is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Just broke up with ex recently

    Hey i could really do with some tailored advice, know a lot of similar questions on here but i didnt listen to it at first.

    Broke up with my gf of 3 years 2 weeks ago, at first i didnt even kno wed broken up, i shouted at her and chucked her out my car and she took that as the end. So for a while i was textin her and trying to ring her, completely wrong move i know but i didnt know wed broken up! She text me a week after telling me and i took it bad (4 days before my birthday), texted her a few times more and i met her yesterday to get some answers about 5 days after we broke up.

    Im trying to play it properly now because shes saying she just cant see us getting back together, i sent her an e-mail saying youre right im gna take a step back. I talked through a lot of our problems and just agreed with her and said i wont talk to you for a while.

    Ive joined a gym, been every day since saturday and got a free personal training session which went well. Im overweight but less than i was when we started going out anyway.

    Whats my next move?! The other problem is even if i wait and she wants me back, shes sooo stubborn that even if shes dieing for me back she wont ring me. Have i ruined it with the texting?

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    El_Draque is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Just broke up with ex recently

    Shes fuckin replied to the e-mail really badly, some of the stuff i was agreeing with in the e-mail (i used to take ecstasy and now shes saying she cant get over that fact) shes saying is new facts to her. I forgot to add some guy has been using her emotionally in the past 5 or 6 months, she been complaining to him about me all the time u kno, and i just saw on facebook her saying to him 'oh ive sent you a text, ive learnt some interesting stuff' (basically regarding my e-mail). Shes even relying on him to help her out with this! Someone help me im going fucking crazy.

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    Default Re: Just broke up with ex recently

    this ones easy. just move on.

    keep working out and bettering yourself.. you don't need this crazy girl.

    Playa

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    Default Re: Just broke up with ex recently

    lol that strangley helped cheers buddy, but i fuckin love crazy girls. Have i even got a chance of gettin her back or have i played it completely wrongly? would still like some advice.

    tbh i must be gettin over her slightly, smiled at this fit as girl in the gym today, got a smile back! Any sort of smile back and im in right?

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    Default Re: Just broke up with ex recently

    This women sounds like a taker, especially if shes using some guy as therapist. Why would you ever want to date a taker? Not to mention a drama queen. Obviously lay off the E and keep in shape, but hell if she was a giver she wouldnt use those things against you but try help you with it.

    Id take this as a sign post in life. You were with a taker, find a giver.


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