I had a lunch date lined up with a girl met off OkCupid. She is a semi-cute nerdy girl who peaked my interest with her intelligence. Mostly I wanted to use her as social proof by taking her to a Korean restaurant with a waitress I have been trying to determine how to approach.
However, she failed to show up. At 10min late I called her (this equalized the number exchange) and she said she it just slipped her mind and promised to come up with a fun activity to make it up to me.
Not sure how to respond now. I didn't confront or anger at her, but I also didn't forgive (my exact words were a rough tease: "Well I am going to go ahead and order, so I will be here if you want to join me. Either way I figure you owe me another meeting.") Not exactly smooth, but I was thinking on the spot and I am a social retard by trade.
She hasn't contacted me back with a new meeting plan. Should I wait for her to contact me (and if she doesn't cut my losses?), give her some time before I take control and create another meeting, or just take control right away?
This would have been our first in person meeting and I am aware she is actively dating other people off the site, so I think I probably got thrown in the trash bin.