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    all american badboy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default she wants to hangout but!

    Ok so I know this girl! HB-9 when I bring her medication because her back hurts she tells me we need to meet up and hang out later that day so she hits me up saying she has family over and she can major bummage anyway she suggests that we hangout 2days later! Guess what busy again.. so for 3days I only send one message a day just saying we needa hangout! I think I should just blow her off for a few days but I could use some help! Please help me with this one she's pretty kool

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    She can't the first day! It said can insted of cant

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    Stop acting so needy.. Just that one message projects your neediness big time..

    What you do is that IF you get a her to come hangout with you, you suddenly have another apointment, even if you don't.. Basically yeah, blow her the fark off.. And then after that let her come to your place another day.. If she cancels again you give her a piece of your mind, get mad at her tell her that it is disrespectful that she misses X number of meet-ups..

    So stop being needy, it is soo unappealing..

    Hope it helps

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    you should change your login name to all_american_wussboy ...

    but seriously, quit being needy.. it is SOOOO unattractive and women hate it.

    start being a busy guy, date other girls, do other fun stuff and occasionally bring her along.

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    all american badboy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    Aight guys thanx! And hylo probably!lol jk its just idk why girls are always like "hey let's hangout!!"then almost always cancel?? Any help?thnx buds

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    Quote Originally Posted by all american badboy View Post
    Aight guys thanx! And hylo probably!lol jk its just idk why girls are always like "hey let's hangout!!"then almost always cancel?? Any help?thnx buds
    Because you are doing something right when they meet you, and if you turn needy in your text game it's Game Over.. Keep the attraction in the messages as well and stay the same as when you met her.. It should work

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    ha I have a similar story like this. a girl i already farked wanted to hang out one day. she stops by my work (I bartend) the night before. wakes up the next day txts/calls to make sure we're still on and says she'll txt me when shes done with class and we will hang out. Never heard from her again. I sent one txt asking if class was over and nr! So what am I gonna do? Nothing she screwed up and blew me off. I have more options. And I think thats how you should act to. Regardless if you do, let her make all the effort. Remember we only want what we have to earn, make her earn you!

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    Quote Originally Posted by amino2 View Post
    ha I have a similar story like this. a girl i already farked wanted to hang out one day. she stops by my work (I bartend) the night before. wakes up the next day txts/calls to make sure we're still on and says she'll txt me when shes done with class and we will hang out. Never heard from her again. I sent one txt asking if class was over and nr! So what am I gonna do? Nothing she screwed up and blew me off. I have more options. And I think thats how you should act to. Regardless if you do, let her make all the effort. Remember we only want what we have to earn, make her earn you!
    I would have taken it one step further and texted her:

    Friends of mine value my time and aren't flakes. Goodbye.

    (this works wonders and after she begs to see you.. you can deny her a few times - she will work to not be labeled a flake. i suggest have her make it up to you (only after she apologies like 5 times) by telling her you are watching a game, but she can bring over a six pack of beer if she wants to watch it with you).

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    Default Re: she wants to hangout but!

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    I would have taken it one step further and texted her:

    Friends of mine value my time and aren't flakes. Goodbye.

    (this works wonders and after she begs to see you.. you can deny her a few times - she will work to not be labeled a flake. i suggest have her make it up to you (only after she apologies like 5 times) by telling her you are watching a game, but she can bring over a six pack of beer if she wants to watch it with you).
    I like what you have to say, don't we wanna avoid discomfort tho in the begining? by this point do you think I should just wait till I hear from her do say that then? cuz it was yesterday. I also think she had some buyers remorse, the night she stopped at my work her friend caught us kissing. she was drunk didnt remember it. When I told her she kinda seemed like "O SH!T". She just broke up with her bf like a week ago and I think she now felt ashamed in her friends eyes.


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