I think all techniques are extremely valuable, but if your mental attitude is off, your just be trying to hide yourself. you need to truly be confidant - as well as appealing it, for example. all of the techniques work, but almost anything can work if you are truly expressive of your self and understand her. i did not say be truly honest - as that is never productive in any situation, and flirting often is a metaphor for lying anyway! lol. Style (said that all his "scripts" were training wheels to allow him to develop his body language, focus, attitude, etc). i dont think ive been very clear, but what im saying is if you truly change yourself, using the techniques will simply advertise that.