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    Default How long of a wait is too long

    Is a month+ too long to try and contact a girl after getting her number?

    in general, when should you contact after the Number Close?

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    soon after youve hanged out. some guys text within the first two days to keep the initial attraction going.

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    Let me clarify. I got a girl's number about a month ago. do you think it's too late to try to contact her?

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    unless you made a great impression on her, yes i think its too late. where did you # close her and why did it take you this long to figure out you want to talk to her?

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    met her at a club. I don't pull too many #'s <== understatement!! She seems like my type but every time I want to call I get REAL shy and nervous. Not sure what to say after hi and I think I rationalize not calling by saying to myself I have nothing to offer or I'm not good enough for her, even though people tell me I'm a great guy.

    That's why I'm on these forums, to get help, probably mostly with inner game stuff... Do you have any links to posts or websites that may be helpful?

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    why dont you text then? if you did you could preselect what you want to say and give it thought.

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    how the hell do you post a thread

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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    slimm if your worried about what to say and how to keep it going i would suggest texting and for advice on texting i would turn to race de preists program b4utxther. i learned stuff from it myself and it really takes ur game to a whole new level. after using it for a while i still use a lot of his techniques but i also have created a lot of my own that i use that work great after field testing them.

    i would suggest texting her, dont be apologetic or anything like that. text her but make some crazy story up that will make her laugh and remind her of meeting you. even though she probably forgot.

    "Oh my gosh silly pants, i just escaped from the guerillas in brazil and finally im safe to text you. what kind of mischeif have you been causing since ___. hope its not involving moving to brazil to be a druglord like me! lol jk"

    There you go, it makes a funny story that is obviously fake, its different and playful and you remind her where u guys met so you can start into an interaction again. but what you need is to build attraction through text know cause its been so long. if you really want to be able to build enough attraction through text to fuck close first night. i really suggest b4utxther. i mean obviously you need to practice after getting it. but EVERY online pickup i have had since i truly knew text game, i have fuck closed on the first night.

    good luck
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    Default Re: How long of a wait is too long

    Idk it seems risky to text/call after so long just because im sure your not the only guy that got her number that night. She probably completly forgot who you are by now youll be like hey its nick and her response will be like who?? and then your stuck being like yeah remember a month ago at this place. First she might text you back and then realize how weird the situation is and youve lost her. Your best choice in my opinion would be to hang out with her again, like if you know she hangs out whever you saw her go back to the place and hope shes there. But next time you get a girls number text her the next day that way she can recall exactly who you are and where you guys met the previous night and then your not just another guy who got her number.


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