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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    Im trying it now.

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I am going to try it its worth a shot

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    not really sure how to asnwer to HB8 after i send her that opener just for fun, she said "hmmm was it cut and paste?' =need your help guys

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    It was a pretty original and cool opener. However, I doubt any opener could get a 90% success rate on Plentyoffish. Unless the guy behind it was also very good looking.

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I have to say this is pretty clever of an opener. I will have to try out a variation of it. It would be funny if a bunch of us try this out and are in the similar geographical area and the same girls end up getting similar messages.

    I definitely agree though with these online sites, especially plentyoffish. You have to stand out to these girls because every schmuck puts, "hey your cute, whats up, my name is ______." Also, a big thing I noticed is always make the Subject Line of your message stand out. Something different and original. Never use, "Hi". A lot of these HB8-10 on these sites get plenty of messages everyday all probably with Subject lines of "hey", "whats up", "hello", or "hi"

    Something simple I have been using such as, "Awesome Profile " or "Intriguing Profile" tend to do the trick. Anything that is different than just regular Hello.
    I even used, "Witty Subject Line Here..."
    I am sure you all get the point

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    Another recommendation for this opener would be to slightly personalize the message with something from her profile or from her pictures.... Insert the opener, but add a little something that is personal to her page
    For Instance....
    I noticed a girl on plentyoffish had like drinks in her hand in basically 4 out of 6 pictures of her. I throw in, "so I can see you have drinks in 4 out of 6 pictures on your profile, besides being a lush, what else is interesting about you"

    Another one is just notice a dress she is wearing and compliment it a bit. These make her feel like it isn't just a mass message you use for everyone and then she really can't blame you for copy and pasting.

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    LOL! Kinda long and spammy looking but hilarious none the less. Props to you.

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    crazy long but it might work..

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I think this opener is terrible honestly. I registered here specifically to talk about this topic.

    It's way too long. The Mindset any PUA should have when online dating is that He doesnt need online dating at all and doesn't care what happens.

    I messaged 15 people and got two responses.

    These are the two I got

    Haha all I can say is wow, you like to write don't you? I do aswell. I like the sound of your profile, you seem pretty interesting. And yes beauty is definitely common, good qoute there. If I were to go on a roadtrip it would probably be to LA not to far, but still far enough. Hbu?
    Okay, that is a decent response. Not the best, but I can tell she thinks the message being too long comes off as TRYING TOO HARD!

    The other girl sent me this:

    This is easily the strangest message I've ever been sent.
    How about you just tell me your name first and stop trying
    so hard? My name is Alaina. I like that you don't type like
    a 7 year old.
    I tried to recover with this:

    First of all I seriously laughed my ass off reading your profile. That baking line really got to me. Now you're doing it again in your response to me.

    Ignoring my game and then turning it against my fragile male ego. Classic. Then you finish with a backhanded compliment. You're a regular comedian aren't you?

    I'm Woodrow. And I learned to type when I was about.... seven years old. So don't mock them too much, I might take offense. :P
    She hasn't responded. It's been less then a day, but she was online and I know she's read the message.

    If you want a good opener, heres one straight from Cajun:

    "You're adorable, so adorable in fact that I've decided im going to adopt you as my new little sister. Don't worry, we'll spend all our time together climbing trees and drinking kool-aid. (Insert personalized comment that shows you read her profile). Actually you seem like a pretty cool person, I'd love to get together sometime and let you cook for me haha. Wait! You're not crazy are you?"

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I've gotten about a 50% success rate with this opener, the ones who do reply however tend to say it was one of the best messages they have received, in my opinion most girls will read all of it unless they are lacking in the knowledge department


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