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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    pretty awesome - will have to try that....

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I tried it out just to see, actually got a few bites, but nothing that materialized. Here was one that called me out and the recovery I attempted on my own (I need more practice!)

    ME: (opener)

    HER: Interesting standard message but I'm not interested.

    ME: I could have put something like "Hey - I like hugs and sleeping in too" so you knew I read your profile, but you get 100's of those already.

    How many people do you think I send this "standard message" to anyway?

    Oh well, since you don't like laughing, we wouldn't have worked out.

    (crickets)

    ... I'm thinking maybe one of those three by themself would have been better alone in the message, but oh well... I didn't send it any "top picks".

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I'm trying this one out too. I sent it to a bunch of women, so it should be interesting to see how it goes.

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    This is pretty good, I tried it a couple times today and even tweaked it a little so that it seems like I wrote it just for them

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    So, after 24 hours, it's not looking very good...

    I sent it to 30 women and 0 replies so far.
    13 of them have read it and 7 of those 13 have deleted it.

    Calling this one a bust, for me anyway.

    Quote Originally Posted by Avenger08 View Post
    This is pretty good, I tried it a couple times today and even tweaked it a little so that it seems like I wrote it just for them
    I tweaked it a bit to make it sound like it was in my voice, but maybe I should've tweaked to their profiles...

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I tried the uber long message to about 4 girls on match, changed the wording a little bit, shortened it a few lines too, got nothing. Oh well was worth a shot. :-P

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I tried it out, changed it around a bit and shortened it as well, I noticed you can customize it to work with just about any girls profile, if you skim over it quickly and pick key words out of it.

    I have had good return rate actually. On pof sent to 10 girls, 5 reply s number closed 2 of them.

    On Okcupid only the one reply, but already organised a date for tomorrow, and I only actually sent it to 3 or 4 girls on okcupid so difficult to judge.

    But all in all a pretty good opener.

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    I tried this yesterday on OK Cupid. 0 for 10. Only one even looked at my profile. Maybe everyone has already seen this?

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    Default Re: best first message ever!!!

    Been lurking on these boards for a short time and started trying some of the stuff I've read. I've used this message (with some tweaks) a couple of times now. No responses yet on OKC (sounds fairly typical) and 2 for 3 on match.

    So far I can't complain


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