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    rmb09 Guest

    Default need some help here...

    I work at a country club and last night we were putting on a wedding reception, a HB9 told one of my coworkers to tell me she though i was cute, when i went to find her she had left. Luckily another coworker went to highschool with her and knew her name, I added her on facebook and want to send a message to her but dont know what to say.....i need some help here.

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    rmb09 Guest

    Default Re: need some help here...

    alright since none of you guys helped me on this, here is what i said tell me what you think...

    Do you always accept friend requests from complete strangers? haha I spotted you when I was working the wedding the other night and I got your name from Justin. You just look like someone who I'd like to know, and yeah this is pretty random but who gives a fuck? Everyone needs a little spontaneity in their life. Look forward to hearing from you.

    -Ryan "That guy from shadow lake"

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    rmb09 Guest

    Default Re: need some help here...

    alright you guys suck haha, but she responded.
    here is what she said.

    I accept anyone
    I spotted you also.

    Talk soon?


    then I said

    For sure. Give me your number so we can stop playing facebook tag. haha

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    Default Re: need some help here...

    alright it's been about a day and a half since i sent her that last message, i'm thinking i should wait a little longer. However if i get no response should i say something back? Definitely need advice.

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    Default Re: need some help here...

    haha dang man i didnt ever see this thread or i would have helped you out. nice try at the rapid escalation but it would probably be good to slow it down. you were jumping to it to fast, play face book tag for a few messages before you move to getting her number. maybe neg her a little.

    "hey it was kind of cute how you had someone tell me i was cute!! It reminded me of middle school. We should meet up for drinks this week. Check yes [ ] or check no [ ]. haha i thought i would take it middle school also. lol"
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    Default Re: need some help here...

    i'm all for slowing it down, but should i wait till she responds to say something back?

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    Default Re: need some help here...

    no just send her a message tomorrow with something like that. take it slow, be playful and be fun to take the pressure off and she will just enjoy herself!!
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    rmb09 Guest

    Default Re: need some help here...

    alright thanks, ill let you know how it goes.

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    rmb09 Guest

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    dude, that definitely worked.

    Here is what i said to her.....

    hey it was kind of cute how you had one of the bussers at the wedding tell me you like me! It reminded me of middle school. We should meet up for drinks this week. Check yes [ ] or check no [ ]. haha i thought i would take it middle school also.


    then she said this back.....

    check [yes]
    and ps. I was kinda tipsy and a little happy that I actually saw someone worth looking at.


    i'm thinking now i should neg her and say something along the lines of "now i get to find out whether or not your a complete weirdoo"

    but how can i set this up so i can ask get her number again and we can set this up?

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    Default Re: need some help here...

    i would take it differently. see again your rushing things! maybe try and just ask for a meet up with her since she said yes. just be silly and maybe suggest a time to meet up like "hey silly pants. im busy this week but how about we meet up saturday at ___. i have never been there and we should check it out. 7:03 os looking favorable to me this saturday!"

    make sure to make a silly time. she will laugh about it and it will lower resistance!!

    oh and thanks i thought that would work. just mirror her at times and point it out as being silly and she will feel a lot more comfortable around you
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