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  1. #1
    jabu Guest

    Default Texting Session Analysis (a bit long lol)

    Putting this up because I think this went so well it could maybe even help out some people with ideas on what/how to text.

    Background on the girl etc... met her when out, very pretty 10 and she was standing out from the crowd for some reason, so got chattin and she turned out really cool! She's 25 and I'm 21.

    So, after a week and a bit yesterday I text her, here's the way it went and what I thought etc whilst texting (Info -> the words in the texts are writtin here in full to help people understand them easier, the texts wern't wrote in full like this.) -

    Me - Hey there frizzy head!lol :P Hows you? Setting into your new pad and all ok?xx
    *(Frizzy head because of her hair after s3x lol. She moved a bit away to study, but close enough to visit. Startin off friendly, interested in how she is and how she's doing at university)

    Her - Well hello there sexy. Well I'm here and that's a start, accomodation will do for now.Just looking forward to the nights out. only moved up yesterday as watched the match at home, pity they lost! You get sorted yet at college?x
    *(standard text here, but I have a few topics to go on such as her place, nights out, the match, and my uni things)

    Me - Lol,whats your place like?Nights out are meant to be good there, you'll be well catered for. Just back from starting up at college today, went well but the travelling sucks lol.If only I knew you were here..we could've had more of that great sex! x
    *(A bit bold on the sex topic, but it was amazing for both of us so I thought what the hell, take a risk and see what happens, didn't think she'd go all weird or blank it..though keep in mind every girl is different, i just read this well)

    Her - The flat is grand, think i ended up with the smallest room bit it'll do!What course you end up goin for, yeah travel is a bummer, do you not drive? Lol you're nuts but i like it- you've put a smile on my face today! could have done with some fun at the weekend,x
    *(Now, the driving thing i thought might have been her testing to see what material things i had like a car etc, but i take part in a sport that requires expensive bikes, so my money goes into that which i say next)

    Me - Ak not to worry, you the last one in aye?Yeah doing (my course), bit of a mouthful lol.Not driving,my biking costs as much as a car!I like being able to put a smile on your face Havta take a trip up sometime yano, make up for that fun over the weekend ya missed! x
    *(The place part I'm just getin more info for. The mouthful bit was way to see how dirty her mind is, i wanted to see if she'd bite and if she's just one of these dirty girls or not. But even if she didn't bite. This sort of phrase I thought might get her mind goin in a sexual way..whether it works or not i duno! Didn't stay on the topic of material things like the cars for long, to show I don't really care for material things like that too much. And after i sent this, the 'havta' bit i would have changed to 'might'. And the smiley faces..I know winks etc can seem cheesy, but I don't mind using them to convey cheekiness)

    Her - No I was allocated that room but one of the girls are quitting uni and moving out so might see if I can get that one. Soudns like an interesting course...yeah I needed something to cheer me up as today wasn't the best of days, I didn't forsee days like this! Just glad I've a bit of green with me to relax lol/. I'd love to catch up again sometime, you're one to remember, x hope your course goes well!
    *(From this, i knew i could stay positive about the room, but with regards the bad day, I knew I had to make sure I didn't become an agony aunt, have to keep the attraction building somehow. The green thing we are both cool about, have the odd joint and whether you dig it or not means no difference to me! And very good reply at the end that I can work well, she's into me, and hope I do well. I wasn't sure what she meant by 'one to remember', so I figured a way to check...)

    Me - Sweet go for it,bigger is better!lol.Yeah the course is just what i dig, and I can skip first year at uni after it! Jeez sounds like you've had one rough day..at least you've got green and me to make it all ok lol. I'm 'one to remember'..now you're makin me smile, defo deserve a good catch up you do x
    *(Bigger is better, another sort of sexual thing i put in for fun, hwnce the wink face lol. Made sure to show things are goin well for me, I'm moving forward and a person who gets things done. Also made sure to not be a friendly 'aww what's wrong' sort of guy, just in my own way reminded her that because she is talking to me she is feeling better lol. The rest I'm just rewarding her for saying good things to me, but at the same time getting her mind thinking about a future meeting, with an incinuation to s3x. Also a way to see what she meant she meant 'one to remember', by seeing what she says back)

    Now...this is when is starts to get good! She texts back very short and simply says,

    Her - Lol well you were fun in more ways than one! x
    *(now at first I was like what? Is that it?..but then i realised..that's AFC thinking! I sat for a while thinking ok, that's good and all, but what do I say to that? And is this like her way of stopping the texts cus she's busy? So i just thought I'd be my quickwitted self and just joke about. I figured this was a little testy text. Also still not sure whether 'one to remember' was more sexual or personality, so i just leave it, too much thinking lol)

    Me - Shucks..if I wasn't so awesomely manly you'd have made me blush there! lol :P x
    *(she knows what I'm like and my humour, and I'm a bit cocky anyways so I knew this would go ok. What i was trying to convey was that what she said meant something to me, but I'm not gona get all worked up on it and I'm a jokey fun kind of guy)

    Her - If you wern't so awesomely manly I may not even be texting you lol
    *(Short and testy..I was enjoying this lol. All i had to do was make sure I remained funny and cocky, and for the record, I've never read DeAngelo's stuff)

    Me - ...and if you wern't so awesomely pretty I may not be texting you! lol x
    *(I know I know, bit cheesy right! lol. But I can be cheesy, to an extent, and be funny while doing it...it suits me, I can make it fun and jokey. And what girl doesn't like to be called pretty lol. Also, using her own words against her..love doing that lol)

    Her - Good one lol. What you doing with yourself tonight anyway, me thinks you're wasting away in that bed on your own
    *(ok, so she appreciated it. And she's not interested in what I'm doing really cus she brought up the bed bit...it was night by the way...and going in a naughtier direction with the convo. So, i thought my aim in the reply is to show that I'm not on my own and having a good time, with some kind of bed reference in there too)

    Me - At my mates having a few beers at the minute..in fact, they're your coors light bottles..cheers!lol. You're the one wasting away in bed.. :P lol x
    *(I decided that instead of just goin straight to sexual talk, I'd neg her and say she's probably on her own bored..let her decide to bring it forward. She left me her beers when at mine last time by the way lol)

    Her - Enjoy your night, btw<(by the way) I'm not totally wasting away in bed on my own, a girl can have fun on her own,x
    *(So, screw the beer talk..she's defo going sexual now... all incinuations at the minute, and i don't want to be the one to go too far, so decided to stay jokey with it all)

    Me - Yeah them crosswords and puzzles at the back of magazines must be excitin! lol :P...unless you're doing sumfin else you'd like to tell me about x
    *(Just keepin things light hearted and fun at the minute, don't want to dive straight into dirty talk just yet...try and build it up. This 'puzzles' joke i think could potentially have ruined the mood, but once again, i was in risk taking mode! lol. I made sure to leave it up to her if she wanted to bring it further)

    Her - Ha, ha funny. But rather than tell you it would be something I'd like to share with you in person
    *(Both of us are being very teasy and not willing to break into anything too serious...a good sign imo. She isn't a dirty bird, naughty, but not dirty lol. The texts have also turned short and quick, I tried to mirror her original text back that was shorter than the previous ones in my texts back)

    Me - Now that does sound better! If I was with you I'd bite and kiss and nibble you all over your hot body...the rest,I'd rather share with you in person lol x
    *(Made sure to let her know I like the sound of what she said, and I keep turning the tables from me being teased to her being teased...here I gave her a bit of something to get her mind thinking, then used her own words against her to tease her. Building the sexual tension pretty high now.)

    Her - Sounds irresistable. :-* Well goodnight, I might just have sweet dreams tonight.x
    *(She clearly liked the tease, and instead of what i thought would happen...her goin further with it...she has to go, but it was late lol. So I built the sexual tension even more. I wasn't too sure what to say back to this, but after some thought my reply went down a treat )

    Me - Them dreams won't be as good as the real thing tho! lol.Nite x
    *(I thought this was an ok reply.. but i got an unexpected text back...)

    Her - You tease, x
    *(now i was close to texting back on this, but I had said good night, and so had she, so I just left it at that, don't want to seem too needy. Not texting back can only build sexual tension even more I think)

    So that's it...quite a read I know but I've never done an analysis of my texting before. This may be a bit too much, but I thought a thorough analysis of my thoughts etc whilst texting could maybe help others make sense of what works and what to say if they get lost with words or worry too much. I think it's important to note the type of girl here may not be the same as another, so everything should be kept in context with the type of girl you are texting.

    From this, I think the message I'm trying to sending out is be fun, flirty, and don't be afraid to take the odd risk..but be sure to keep it light hearted as texts can be tough to judge with regards that stuff. Make sure to read HOW she is texting you as well, such as words, x's, length, and topics. I don't think it's a bad idea to send longer texts as well, so long as they aren't as frequent..personally I could wait about an hour or so to text back a lengthy reply. The short and quick stuff is better for fun, naughty stuff imo.

    If anyone can give feedback on how I've done or what I've said as well that would be great! Good or bad, I don't mind. If you've read all this, you deserve a medal! haha
    Last edited by jabu; 09-26-2010 at 03:49 PM.

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    Default Re: Texting Session Analysis (a bit long lol)

    not bad. you were playful. brought up rapport topics. was able to gauge the sexual talk, interpret her suxual undertones pretty well, and then just kept it playful and fun. Definitely a good text game session. But for your next text game session i would make it go sexual with a dirty dream! there is a free preview of race de preists dirty dream technique for his b4utxther program. absolutely amazing technique! i would try it out

    good job bro.
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    Default Re: Texting Session Analysis (a bit long lol)

    Sweet, cheers man! Would you have a link to that 'dirty dream technique' thing by any chance?

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    Default Re: Texting Session Analysis (a bit long lol)

    yeah check out this post. the preview is at the bottom

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