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    Exclamation I think i messed it up.

    Hey guys. I've dated a girl monday and we've kinda hit it off.

    First off, we've had enormous Kino and great rapport : playing with fingers, hugging, neck biting ( she bit me ) but no kiss ( kinda weird, since she DID gave me the "eye-to-lips gaze" twice ). She even proposed future plans together ( cooking, movies )

    Since then, we've been texting back and forth and I think i might have screwed it up big time. ( Note : this is still at the "I think" stage )

    this happened today. I told her that i've had a dream about her :
    Me: i dreamed about you last night
    Her: oh, goooood
    Her: aaaand?
    Me: it's dirty
    Me: we were in the woods and it was day
    Me: and it started to rain and there was mud everywhere
    Her: yeeees
    Me: and we were soaking wet
    Me: and at one point you trip and you fall in the mud
    Me: and when you fell, you pulled me down too
    Me: and we started to mud-wrestle
    Me: playfully
    Her: ))
    Me: maaan, it was dirty
    Her: is that all that happened?
    Me: nope
    Me: after a few min i pinned you down in the mud
    Me: after that i pulled you up and pinned you against a tree....not too hard
    Me: and i was touching you below the ribs
    Me: under your shirt
    Her: :|
    Me: which was kinda large now, since we pulled our clothes and stuff
    Her: :|
    Me: what?
    Her: go on
    Me: you had another shirt on, so chill
    Me: after that it started raining harder and we took our shirts off and put them on our heads
    Me : and we made out passionately and you bit me
    Me: and after that i woke up
    Her: )
    Her: goshhhhhhh

    After she signed out of IM, i texed her a bit :

    Me : Oh and do have horny dreams tonight :P. And tomorrow, if you don't feel better, think about me. that'll make you smile and feel good.
    Her : )))) you too! good night and good luck tomorrow...on second thought, you better not dream ))
    Me: And why should I not be dreaming? You make me feel like a pudgy, naked, winged child has shot an arrow into my chest. and thanks for the good luck, i'll wake up very early in the morning.
    Her : oh goooooooood, noo noo, think you dreamed that too. it's bad, you don't discern reality from dream. oo, nasty, you'll have less time to dream )
    Me: I think the pudgy, naked, winged child message didn't came out well. Don't get me wrong, i don't love you...at least not now. you just make me smile and make me feel good.

    So, the million dollar question is : did i farked it up or not?
    Last edited by Sitfab; 09-23-2010 at 04:47 PM.

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    You should at least give credit to race depriest since that conversation is 100% out of the b4utxther product...

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    I would def say u do have some errors in there but there was good too.
    First the bad
    Its always good to build the sexual escalation, but notice how she reacted to ur language " I pinned u down and I pulled u up" this can be threatening, thats y she reacted with :|. I also think that u chasing after her when she logged off was bad. It was try hard and needy.
    Y is it weird that you have bit necks and not kissed yet, sounds like u chickened out when she gave you the signals. . . Mayb someone else has a dif opinion on this but the initiation of txt coulda been taken creepy depending on the level of rapport n comfort, jus be carefull when using something like that.
    Ok the good
    So the initiation for txt was clever, it inspired her to want to talk to u, that much I give u.
    You did sexually escalate maybe too soon, but ur doing it is what matters now its just calibration. I like how u inspired her to feel emotions thru the txt. One minute she feels agression from the wrestling and the next she feels passion from the kiss. Way to go with givin her an emotional rollercoaster ride.

    So i am thinkn whe she asked is that all that happened. It would been fun to say something like "no then u forced urself on me and i was all like nooooooooooo. hahahahaha" this way u become the victim in this dream (role playing) and she has to earn u back. U never want her to feel like the victim, thats a negative association with u!

    Hope I wasnt mean, jus callin it like i see it.

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    You should at least give credit to race depriest since that conversation is 100% out of the b4utxther product...

    Did he do it verbatum? Mayb I am new to this but idk if i like the routine cuz of the negative associations that could come frome it.

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    no he really screwed up race de preists technique. the best thing about race de preists techniques are all about verbage. but his was really messed up but yes you totally fucked it up.
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    Quote Originally Posted by amino2 View Post
    Y is it weird that you have bit necks and not kissed yet, sounds like u chickened out when she gave you the signals. . .
    I tried kissing her after she gave me the signals....both times, but she backed off.

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    Crob, is that the dream technique you were telling me about? I couldn't find it on the link ya gave me... pretty sure I can use this to good effect though!

    Sitfab I'm sure you've had enough blunt honesty on farking this one up a bit lol, amino has said it all, learn from it and you'll be sweet to tha beat man! As for the kisses being backed off from after signals...duno what that's all about...if it happens again just mirror the eyes-to-lips gaze, give a cheeky smile, and leave it. If she wants to be weird and tease, I'd be a tease right back and not give her the opportunity to back off!..and keep on teasing even the kiss does happen..I'm a teasy wee ballix! haha. Get a few other views on that though, it's just what I'd do and may not be best for your situation.

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    yes this is the dream technique i was talking about. here ill show you the technique. haha its freaking amazing when used correctly

    Link to:
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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    Crob that is dynamite, pure dynamite. I'm actually gonna use it right now, ill post results. sitfab you shoulda trusted the material on this bro and not changed it.

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    Default Re: I think i messed it up.

    Quote Originally Posted by amino2 View Post
    Crob that is dynamite, pure dynamite. I'm actually gonna use it right now, ill post results. sitfab you shoulda trusted the material on this bro and not changed it.
    I can't help not to change it, i spoke to her in my native language i used the exact outline, but had to translate it word for word.

    Anyway, i got a date 2 with this girl in question, so i don't think i fucked it up completely. i'll look around here for the best advice on a date 2.


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