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    themarquis Guest

    Default from way on to apparently off?

    went to a party past weekend and there was this girl who i caught immediate eye contact with, she came up to me, very close and she was fucking hot. Physical contact happened right away. She ended up wondering off so I went with a friend to grab beer and got back and kept mingling, i was more focused on seeing people I hadn't seen in months.

    She ended up finding me again and this time we started kissing, she said how good looking i was and how she liked my eyes, we exchange numbers and she calls to make sure its mine. Then she texts me half hour after she leaves to make sure i have her number and expresses we should really hang out. So I'm gold right? Wrong.

    next day i send simple text:

    me: "hey you missed a rad after party!"

    then we text about where we may have seen each other from before, because we both recognized each other from somewhere when we first met.

    short convo about that ensues then she stopped replying. So ya i get kind of instant vibe she isn't as excited to be texting with me as she was previous night but whatever i play it cool.

    I then invite her to this show im planning to be at and her reply is she's thinking she will go. We keep convo going with texts every so often. Turns out she is having "serious serious" family drama so understandably she couldn't go. I suppose this could have been an excuse but im thinking its actually true, gonna for sure give benefit of the doubt on this. So I say how i understand and sorry to hear that but i hope we can hang out soon. She replies yes for sure and it will blow over soon. Ok so I'm cool, this seemed to explain the sort of serious demeanor on texting.

    I initiated other small conversations the next day, asked if she was doing ok, she talked about it a little, we got into music interests so i emailed her a song i tracked (and this is important, perhaps sounds douchy or not believable but you have to assume its true to understand the situation: I'm good at music, singing and writing. Its well performed and a good song very relevant style. Not bragging but this is kind of an important detail to sending a chick music). She is down and says she will check it out when she can. Not sure that she even listened to it or what that was yesterday afternoon havent heard from her since, i only sent one other random text a bit later, something funny about my sweet mustache (which she complimented the other night so i would think it would have gone over well).


    Point of all of that is her interest level seems fucking low compared to the party and I'm not sure how to go about it, very into this girl (not just in a hook up way like she seems to be actually a cool person). I havent texted at all today and was not planning to until day after tomorrow but when i do I have no idea what approach i should take. I'm really not feeling a vibe through the texting, in this case i feel its just not working and wish i could just get her somewhere in person again


    Any suggestions??

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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    Sounds like you overdid the comfort and are going to get LBJFed. Id back way off for a while. Then when you text her again use some escalation techniques.

    Was she drunk at the party?

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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    ya she must have been. But she seemed sober when she was leaving and all the number exchanging happened. How long should I back off and what sort of escalation should I do??

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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    the thing is i have no idea how to escalate through text or phone, i tried searching and am still not clear on some specific things i could do. In person I' really good because im a confident guy that isn't shy about being physical etc but by text, man.. i feel like she is bored for sure

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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    I am currently writing a review for a program called b4utext by race du priest ofthe social man. It's solid and talks about all this. I don't have a link for it but I'm sure Bill will insert it.

    Check it out br far the best phone game, and text program out there. Check it out.

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    i agree. get the program b4utxther and you will be golden for sure. freeze her out for a little bit and then move back into having fun thru text. trust me, this program will show you everything from exchanging numbers to turning text into sex
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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    Cool well it grabbed my email and then forwarded me to a cool thing where I read an entire document about this elusive "program" which I'm sure costs money. Just looking for some advice, if anyone can provide it without needing my credit card number let me know. The only thing I gleaned from that scant document is that he wants me to make some bizarre comment about dreaming of mud wrestling. But certain that won't work

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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    guys how long should i wait to hit her up? Any ideas how to handle it once i do? I couldn't even find that thing u guys were talking about

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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    B4 U TXT HER

    here u go here is the link. check it out. i would usually help you out right now but i hurt myself lifting today and feel like shit. so if u can wait until i feel better like tomorrow ill take another look and maybe have some text advice for you. oh and if u take a look at my previous posts u will find a bunch of posts on text game. ill say pretty much the same thing as thoughs. but i also have one with a few other text game techniques from that program if u want to check it out
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    Default Re: from way on to apparently off?

    I read your past posts and the one with some of the stuff from the program, its $90 so I can't do that right now so any specific *free advice on A) how long i should wait, its been two full days and B) a great very next text to spike some more interest C) overall pointers texting here on out. Really into this girl but feel i've been botching it on text and not doing myself justice


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