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  1. #1
    Joe dirt Guest

    Default First no response

    Got this girls number about two weeks ago and texted her casually a few days later and we sent text back and forth throughout day. Didn't text her for a few days and she sent me a kinda jokey text and we had another brief convo. Called and made plans for lunch for last Wednesday and she said yes, but I had to cancel and she said well let's do it next week. So last night she text me telling me some of our mutual friends are at this bar and to come up, but I told her I couldn't make it because I was studying for a test. Anyway, I sent her a text message about two hours ago that said "so what are you doing tomorrow afternoon", and she hasn't responded. This is frustrating because she usually text back within a few minutes. Kinda stumped here.

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    Joe dirt Guest

    Default Re: First no response

    Ok. She just text me back "hey what's up". How do I respond to this?

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    Default Re: First no response

    just keep it fun and playful. stop thinking so much. make a fun interaction. dont text back with or nothing and then say what ur doing. make it really fun and playful. "ok well personally im finishing my plan on how we are going to take over the world. Im brain and ur pinky :P" this will just seem sarcastic, fun, neg and get her to say more than hey whats up...just keep it fun
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    Just quit bein a wuss and go hang out with her. She obviously wants to hang out with you so just make it happen and quit backin out on her. She's not gonna stay interested if you keep it up. Do you really need to ask how to respond to "what's up"? Just say "what you up to". Texting has got to be the easiest kinda convo ever. I got that goin all day with 3 sometimes 4 girls everyday

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    Joe dirt Guest

    Exclamation Re: First no response

    I'm not being a "wuss" and only cancelled the one date for a legit reason. Obviously I'm trying to hang with her, but I have a busy school week and can't just drop what I'm doing and go to the bar. I know how to respond to a what's up text, but that's not what I was asking. I was asking how or if I should address her avoiding a question.

    Anyways she was at the bar again but this is another night where I have school stuff due in the morning.
    Last edited by Joe dirt; 10-12-2010 at 11:47 PM.

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    Default Re: First no response

    Quote Originally Posted by RamVanDam View Post
    Just quit bein a wuss and go hang out with her. She obviously wants to hang out with you so just make it happen and quit backin out on her. She's not gonna stay interested if you keep it up. Do you really need to ask how to respond to "what's up"? Just say "what you up to". Texting has got to be the easiest kinda convo ever. I got that goin all day with 3 sometimes 4 girls everyday

    first off its ok if he flakes but he also needs to gauge her emotions so she doesnt feel rejected. and come on, you text game like an AFC. girls are in auto pilot for things like that, you once you finally keep gettting sort cold boring messages then you wont really get her attracted. its all about having fun and being playful over text. being different then every other AFC answer like. "nothin. what u up to?"
    jeez i just cant imagine what she will respond to with that. haha its ok to have tough love but also be aware Ramvandam that ur not a complete guru. neither are any of us. we are on here to learn so rather than gives specifics. just give ur opinion not really stated so straight forward calling him out. he asked so we give our opinions!
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    Default Re: First no response

    Quote Originally Posted by Joe dirt View Post
    I was asking how or if I should address her avoiding a question.
    The answer is "No you shouldn't". She likely didn't have her phone on her, or she was busy. Your lucky she initiated txting with you later. She wouldn't do that unless she was interested in you somewhat. You are over reading the situation.

    As a rule of thumb, if she doesn't respond after half an hourish, send another txt that is either a joke, or a completely different topic. If she doesn't respond to that don't txt her for a day (unless she reponds later). Then the next day send some sort of reengagement text, this forum is chalk full of examples, my favorite being the "Raising the Dead" technique which you can search for. If she doesn't respond to that. Freeze her out for at least a week before you try to reengage, and if she ignores you at that point delete the number and move on.

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