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  1. #1
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    Default Looking for situational advice

    So i met this pretty hot chick at a party, played it pretty cool by using the self amusement technique. She starts Facebook chatting me, being pretty flirty so we chat on and off for about a week. Recently we met up with some mutual friends.

    So she's been initiating texts about 80% of the time and these conversations have been lasting way too long in my opinion, but for some reason I just kept the convo alive.. I think i'm doing well with keeping good energy, role-playing a bit, and not texting right away, but i'm lacking in a few departments. Shes really sweet, so i kept away from the cocky funny and just stayed playful. I'm stopping myself now to try to stay away from the friend zone and increase sexual attraction.

    getting a Day 2 to Kino escalate is very possible, but it wont be for a while. Overall I've been too much of a "friend", we're texting too much, and I showed interest in her already. Any advice for turning this one around, getting some Tension going? Want to change my overly frequent friendly texts to attraction building texts without making it a weird change of pace. Maybe freeze her? Or slowly text her less? Thanks a lot mates, any advice/suggestions are appreciated!
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    Default Re: Looking for situational advice

    haha ahhh the old rules of pickup! really dude if she is still talking to you, showing interest and going along with the escalation ur doing then ur fine. ur just too much in ur head and following these rules too closely. that put those rules in place for the majority of the PUA's because they do not know how to successfully use them. so they are used because it is the safe choice. its not the god givien word of what to do or not do.

    the only thing you have to do is get her for a day 2 where its just you too and work your game. best bet is to do something original and fun. show some interest but dont pressure her. the best thing to do with this is do something you will both like thats not a romantic setting. then when ur doing that just have fun, talk, keno, escalate and dont forget you have been working ur game for a little now. its time for a kiss. so go for it. i saw a really interesting kiss close on her in the last couple days. try to look for it cause the girl your talking to would really dig this kiss close!

    but the best advice i can give is GET OUT OF UR HEAD. you keep thinking too much, analyizing too much and trying to follow the rules down to the tee that ur forgetting to just have fun with the interaction between you 2. just have fun and just incooperate the things you know to help your success. things such as keno, sexual escalation, games and stuff to make your more alpha and fun.

    good luck i hope this helped
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    Default Re: Looking for situational advice

    Ahaha, well I wasn't expecting that, but you know what? I think you're right! Everything's seemed pretty natural so far, then I started applying things from the game and got paranoid. The only thing I do want to work on is making a change from the "I obviously want you; I'm agreeing way too much" texting to the "keep her wanting more and thinking sexually" texting. I froze her for a day after previously texting back and forth as if we were already dating. I'll just try to re-frame our next convo though.

    Outside of getting that escalation through texts, I think I'll be golden actually. I'm not too worried about a Day 2 even if it wont happen for a while, I just need to think up something creative! Thanks a lot broseph, I appreciate it. It feels good to take a step back. Cheers!

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    Default Re: Looking for situational advice

    yeah bro. the thing about game is starting out, yes there are rules to keep your old beta self at bay. but once you have learned and be in it for a while, its just about doing you and incooperating what you know works with women. i mean ask bill what he does, do u think it follows the 3 second rule, or if he evens uses opinionated or indirect openers. beginners are always told not to show interest but after you know game properly you can go in direct and close like a champ and usually that what experienced PUA's usually stick to is being direct and confident! so yeah bro, she seems into you from what u have said, just stay out of ur head
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    Default Re: Looking for situational advice

    Shes definatly somewhat interested in you, wether its as a friend or as a potential love interest. But right now it seems as if your leaning way towards the friend zone, you should have definatly done the cocky funny in my opinion because it shows her where you stand, rather then beating around the bush trying to befriend her and then before you know it one of your boys ends up getting with her. You need to set up a day 2 as soon as possible the longer you wait the smaller your window to get with her gets before your just her bestfriend who cant get with her. Be flirty, escalate, use Kino, and make her laugh. But the number one thing you should do now is stop texting her so much and ask her out on a date. Dont say hey want to hang out because a hang out is compleltly different than a date, specification is key. that way you will get a clear response on where you stand and whether or not you should be pursuing this or not.


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