Ask A Question!
Most guys get rejected on Facebook, MySpace and other social networks because females have their critical factor way up and they are looking for guys trying to get with them. The critical factor is the conscious mind. It's the gatekeeper so to speak.
When you ask a question you bypass the critical factor.
For instance, I sent a female a message that said this:
I have a friend who dates one of our friends ex girlfriends. I'm friends with both of them and theirs a part of me that wants to keep quiet about it and another part of me who wants to tell my friend and get things out in the open. I'm sort of stuck in the middle and I wanted to get a females perspective on this. So what would you do in this situation?
Now it doesn't matter if this story is true or not. The objective is to get her to answer the question and then you can start up a conversation with her and lead the conversation into different areas.
This way, you're not putting her critical factor on alert and her guards are down because it's just a simple question.