Hi im new to all this, im not really good with girls but recently Ive been looking on the internet to try and make myself better on this and try and pick up tips, Ive have also listen to the David DeAngello Series and its put a lot of things in new light for me.
Anyway I have been texting this girl I meet online for a few months now and although we have met with her friend for a few drinks we still haven’t as such been on a 1st date together yet.
Ive tried a few times over the last month to fix a date but it never seems to go to plan so backed off a little not to look needy. Last week I thought I would go for it again and texted her saying to come out on Thursday for a few drinks. She couldn’t make Thursday and offered Sunday so without giving her all the power I agreed but said it would have to be at 6pm after the Football.
Anyway we texted for another day or so after agreeing to meet up but not really on the Friday and Saturday as we were both working, Not that I felt this was a big deal we were going to see each other Sunday anyway and it would give us something to chat about.
So Sunday comes and by 3pm I text her saying “I see you in town at 6:15 wheres best to meet you” to my surprise I got texts back saying “I didn’t know you still wanted to meet” and that “Ive made plans to see my mum now”.
I was pretty pissed off to be hosent I did try to say that we had made plans but she kept saying stuff like “How was I suppose to know and I haven’t heard from you in two days.”
I must admit I don’t think ive reacted well to this I tried to use some stuff from David DeAngello I learned but I feel Ive complety said the wrong stuff at the wrong time.
I ended up texting her saying “o well at least your make a very good friend” and once receiving two quick replies with me not writing back at any point of “Yeah and“Fine” I ending up texting “Stop being a pain in the arse and meet me at 6:15pm or not”
Anyway looks like ive fxxked up here and I dunno what to do to get us to chat again as I haven’t received anything back since (3 days), I like her and would like to get to know her more but only on my terms because I feel I got mucked about Sunday.
My 1st thoughts was to give her time and let her come to me but nothings happened and im thinking should I text her for at least the “pain in the arse” bit which I feel Ive used wrong.
Give her the benefit of the doubt? And if so do I text? Saying what?
Give her more time…..her lose if she doesn’t text back, shes not worth it?
Shes spinning you a line Matt to get out of a date….take the hint?
If it helps im nearly 25 and shes just 20