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Thread: Help Needed

  1. #1
    MattC Guest

    Default Help Needed

    Hi im new to all this, im not really good with girls but recently Ive been looking on the internet to try and make myself better on this and try and pick up tips, Ive have also listen to the David DeAngello Series and its put a lot of things in new light for me.

    Anyway I have been texting this girl I meet online for a few months now and although we have met with her friend for a few drinks we still haven’t as such been on a 1st date together yet.

    Ive tried a few times over the last month to fix a date but it never seems to go to plan so backed off a little not to look needy. Last week I thought I would go for it again and texted her saying to come out on Thursday for a few drinks. She couldn’t make Thursday and offered Sunday so without giving her all the power I agreed but said it would have to be at 6pm after the Football.

    Anyway we texted for another day or so after agreeing to meet up but not really on the Friday and Saturday as we were both working, Not that I felt this was a big deal we were going to see each other Sunday anyway and it would give us something to chat about.

    So Sunday comes and by 3pm I text her saying “I see you in town at 6:15 wheres best to meet you” to my surprise I got texts back saying “I didn’t know you still wanted to meet” and that “Ive made plans to see my mum now”.

    I was pretty pissed off to be hosent I did try to say that we had made plans but she kept saying stuff like “How was I suppose to know and I haven’t heard from you in two days.”

    I must admit I don’t think ive reacted well to this I tried to use some stuff from David DeAngello I learned but I feel Ive complety said the wrong stuff at the wrong time.

    I ended up texting her saying “o well at least your make a very good friend” and once receiving two quick replies with me not writing back at any point of “Yeah and“Fine” I ending up texting “Stop being a pain in the arse and meet me at 6:15pm or not”
    Anyway looks like ive fxxked up here and I dunno what to do to get us to chat again as I haven’t received anything back since (3 days), I like her and would like to get to know her more but only on my terms because I feel I got mucked about Sunday.
    My 1st thoughts was to give her time and let her come to me but nothings happened and im thinking should I text her for at least the “pain in the arse” bit which I feel Ive used wrong.
    Anyway what do I do
    Give her the benefit of the doubt? And if so do I text? Saying what?
    Give her more time…..her lose if she doesn’t text back, shes not worth it?
    Shes spinning you a line Matt to get out of a date….take the hint?
    If it helps im nearly 25 and shes just 20
    Many Thanks
    Matt
    Last edited by MattC; 10-27-2010 at 07:09 PM.

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    Default Re: Help Needed

    Ok well you chance with her is most likely gone. You acted very needy and gave her to much. Sometimes women flake just cause they forgot or they got busy. You can not take it personal, which you did. Yea you want to and need to be alpha, but don't be a jerk. I mean really would you wantto go meet someone who just called you a pain in the a$$? I wouldn't. My suggestion is move on. Learn some more and address you inner game issues and find the next one. Take it as a learning experience and move on.

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    Default Re: Help Needed

    ouch she wanted to see her mom, and you called her pain in the arse. not good. I would just call her and apologize, I think being open and admitting one's mistake is an alpha quality.

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    yesman Guest

    Default Re: Help Needed

    text her something funny with role playing,

    partially stolen from crobinson1 a texting genius:

    "hey wifey pants! our busy schedules are putting a lot of pressure on our marriage. i almost went to get the divorce papers when you stood me up sunday but i came to my senses and decided to give it one more chance. plus i dont want to have to sell our house. so, what works better for you ____ or ______?"

    give her two different days to choose from, if she calls you out about reacting poorly. tell her you turned down 3 things to do to keep your appt with her and when you make a plan you always stick to it and she should too. but you forgive her, plus it was a blessing in disguise because you ended up having a ton of fun on sunday anyway. (make up a story if necesary) gl go get it, stay cocky funny and not needy.

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    Default Re: Help Needed

    not a bad text plan. definitely sets a playful tone, is forward/direct and alpha. i mean that definitely is a good text and then ur taking the pressure off cause the choice of days. so she can do whatever works best. but yeah with some text game mastery you could come back from it. if anything i would suggest race de preists b4utxther program. absolutely amazing stuff. there are quite a few PUA's on here who have read it and there text game is amazing.
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

  6. #6
    MattC Guest

    Default Re: Help Needed

    Cheers peeps I will give that a go tonight yesman if it doesnt work I think ive dicided now that I will walk away and learn from my mistakes.

  7. #7
    yesman Guest

    Default Re: Help Needed

    agree if she doesnt respond, move on for sure. and if she ever hits u up down the road, or you run into her you can always joke again about the divorce.

    let us know how it goes, good luck.


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