So there is this girl that I am really into and we've been occassionally hanging out and texting the past couple of months. It is progressing but very slowly. My gut feeling tells me that she is interested in me by her body language and the way she responds to text messages but sometimes I get negative thoughts in my head telling me that she might just want to be friends...
How often should I text her first? I mean she contacts me first probably 30% of the time but most of the time it is on nights that she wants to go out and party and asks what I am doing. However, she has had a boyfriend during this time, but now they just broke up so I am wondering if I need to text her first everytime?
Does it turn girls off and make a guy look desperate and needy when they text first everytime?
Should I wait for her to make an effort to contact me if she really likes me since I have contacted her first the past few times?
I have been beating it around the bush and playing it cool whenever I talk to her without making it obvious that I like her more than I friend so she might be thinking the same way I am... Am I playing my cards right in this situation?
Thanks in advance