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  1. #1
    Aj_style Guest

    Default Big error or beginner's mistake?

    so i met this girl at my college and talked to her for the first time, it was quick and i walked with her to class and she introduced herself to me as she went to class. the next time i saw her, she was sitting in the table next to mine so i decided to talk to her. i slightly and quickly touched her hair then brag about why her hair was curly cause i thought she would like better in straight hair. so "blah, blach, etc" she went on with about her hair. next i teased her a little about her shoes and by surprise she was quite open in talking to me. the next time i talked to her, i was lucky to get her number and took a photo of her too. the reason why i got her number was she invited me too her hangout that following sunday night. i didn't go and text her i had to work cause someone called out that day, knowing that i had to work that day already. she didn't text back. we talked the next time, and she sounded like her usual self. later into the conversation i invited her for a drink that friday. she hesitated and said she'll check her availability (apparently this is a beginner's mistake). And of course she didn't go b/c of ... watsoever etc.

    So my question is.. how could've i taken the situation? I'm open to any suggestion. Like I said I'm a beginner at this.

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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    wait. i dont get it. you had to work and now u think that was a mistake and then u think u messed up? im confused
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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    wait. i dont get it. you had to work and now u think that was a mistake and then u think u messed up? im confused

    My fault for not rereading my sentences.

    What I meant was that I told her I was going to attend her hangout party, but I already knew that I was not going to make it because I had to work that sunday night; therefore, i text her that morning saying i couldn't make it and didn't go.

    The part where I thought I mess up was when I asked her out for a drink, and she hesitated and said that she'll check her availability. Then she told me she was available that friday but on friday when i text her to meet me at 4 she reply with an excuse of her being sick.

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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    I'm just a beginner like you but sounds like you did everything right actually when you wrote about touching her hair i thought *Gasp* he's screwed. But sounds like you have her interested maybe she really was sick?

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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    I don't know if she was really sick or not because I haven't talked with her for almost two week now. And before I got her number, that very same day she had added me on facebook. Guess nobody can give me any tips to learn and apply for the next time.

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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    well its not really an error. girls flake you just have to build a solid attraction for them to stop falking and actually come meet you
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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    well its not really an error. girls flake you just have to build a solid attraction for them to stop falking and actually come meet you
    Thanks, I'll talk to her again soon then.

    Quick and easy question.
    Judging from the situation if by any chance I can still build a solid attraction. What would you suggest(for starters like myself)?

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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    u can still build more attraction u just have to do it the right way. always be playful, funny, tease a little, keno and then have a little sexual Tension building.
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    Default Re: Big error or beginner's mistake?

    When did you ask her to go out for drinks on Friday? Because if it was earlier in the week I would stay away from making very specific plans like that. Putting out the idea of hanging out on a specific day but unsure of what/when you might be able to is a better idea. Even through in a "I might have to study for this test or meet with a study group then so i don't even know if it'll work out". But by setting non-specific goals it keeps the conversations going up until that date (which tends to cease if you have really specific solid plans in place already) and lets you actually set a better time for both of you once it's that day or the night before.

    in my exp. anyways...


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