So ive been dealing with this flake recently. We have been on 4 dates. However there has been a big time gap between our last meeting. Been about a month.. she claims shes been busy the whole time. But whatever.. so im suspecting shes been sorta cold. But we do text back a little bit during the weeks she usually gives me strong IOIs. But anyways so im trying to invite her to the bars cause me and my friends are going out for my bday this weekend. She is in my outer social circle, we have mutual friends. Trying to think of a good text. Heres what i got. "hey. We are going to the bars for my birthday tomorrow night. (her friend) is coming..you could prolly tag along with her. But if you have a test in the morning i understand ( this is me ripping on her for her awlays saying she is studyin).
PLease critic and advise on this text. Keep in mind im thinking she is either going cold/flakey with a low interest level or she is geniually the busiest person ever. SHould i even send this text too?