NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, EVER neg when online dating. NEVER!
Oh and did I mention...
I love this forum.
‪Pick-up Artist Noble Casalupus - What doesn't work‬‏ - YouTube
Please. Young and old send me a message. I run with a bunch of cool NYers that are geek, good looking, ivy league, lab rat know it alls that have had 50 women each at least.
Please direct your questions to the know-it-alls. US.
Send me a direct email to my inbox at the forum or at frcmortgage@hotmail. com
I'm not trying to sound like a dikc but most men on here are delusional and the delusional are trying to lead the delusional. Not a good combo.
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All info is forever free. i luv this shyt.
-Steve 456 aka Stevie(dice thrower)
This is what works for me.
"Wow, you really have me curious to see if you have a personality to match your great sounding profile and your pretty face. Something tells me that you're probably getting about 50 emails a day from loser guys saying things like "Hi, I'm freshly divorced from my seventh wife, have 5 delinquent kids... but the good news is that I have a good chance at finally getting a job..." etc.
In any event, I have my life together, and I'm more than the usual amount of interesting and funny, so you'd better like to laugh. Lets chat and see what kind of friends we can make. Its all starts there after all. I look forward to hearing back from you."
Have any of you ever tried "Chet's online dating system"? Especially, the email templates?
Ok so i have a decent online dating opener that ive been using on okcupid and datehookup. This so far has had about a 50% success rate. This is my latest response from it and i find it funny as hell.
Me:Whats up beautiful. Today is your lucky day
Her:Why are you going to stop talking?
Me:If by stop talking you mean keep being awesome them yeah.
Her:Keep telling yourself whatever you want.
Me: Well now i know why your single. lol
Her:Well, actually I have a lot of me falling over their heels to get to know me. I dont like YOU, bc I wasnt turned on by the whole "today is your lucky day" line. Sry but you have to do better than that. Seems like a cocky pick up line to me. The last thing I need is an egotistical man
Me:I mean im not saying your not beautiful. Thats why you have all kinds of guys wantin to be with you. That also makes you think that everyone else is below you. Just like your trying to do with me. They think that by kissing your ass you will be with them. Thats stupid and dont work at all. And i think that line is pretty clever and its intention was to get you to talk to me. Not to turn you on. Just some info for you.
Her:Actually, I have NEVER in my life but myself above anyone! I am not a perfect person in the least bit! I give everyone a fair chance. I am not trying to put you below me. I am trying to teach you to use a different approach with me if you would like to talk. And NOBODY kisses my ass. I am very hardworking and I get NOTHING handed to me, not realtionships, money or anything.
However I have to admire your being honest, I like that. Most men would back off and not talk to me. But not you. I like that.
So any critisism on how i did? Keep in mind that im still pretty new to this i just wanna see if yall have any ideas to make it better.
That's very good, it looks like you've gotten past the "cut through the BS" phase and are now conversing with her in a genuine manner. Maybe try something along the lines of "I like what you wrote too, my name is *name. I like that you are honest and have integrity." and go on along that line, reward her at this stage for being able to cut through the BS. You got past the opening/break the ice part, you got a non-generic, well written out response from her. Another email or two, asking *real* questions about her, and you should be able to get her number and suggest to meet up somewhere low key.