The OP, I could not follow your story, but I got that someone was jealous. I presume it was you. With that presumption in mind, I submit:
jealousy will KILL your chances with any hired hand.
Pretend you own a very exotic, badass car; such as an Ascari. As the owner of that car, you want people to look at it, comment on it, and be envious of your possession of it. You have a reasonable expectation they will not take it from you. After all, very few people have the balls and the know-how to steal a car and you have the keys with an amazing securtiy system.
A woman is much like that car; if you do things correctly. She will be admired and sought after, but compared to you, those seeking her have nothing to offer. When you know that, you'll appreciate that you have a woman so great other men swoon at the thought of her. Knowing that will only solidify your position.
I have failed more than most men have tried.
Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.